lakeishap43 Posted February 12, 2004 Posted February 12, 2004 ok i'm going to try to bear myself from going over there tonight maybe i can make it thru it. thank you lots
lakeishap43 Posted February 12, 2004 Posted February 12, 2004 does anyone else have any sugestions????
FreeMe Posted February 13, 2004 Posted February 13, 2004 I kept trying get to this site yesterday after you said you were going to his place and I couldn't get on! Very frustrating. I hope you took bicyclejunk's advice and didn't go. When you said you were going to tell him you would stop bothering him and that he could call you if he needed to I wanted to scream! You're not understanding. By doing that you are allowing him to keep ALL the CONTROL in this. The whole point of no more contact and telling him not to call you at all is so that YOU have the control (over what happens to you). Also by saying you are going to stop bothering him you're demeaning yourself. Like he's living his life and you're just like this pathetic little insect that keeps buzzing around. Don't give him that power over you.
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