cleveraccountname Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 So, apparently taking the highroad isn't always so great. My ex cheated and then left me over a month ago, then turned into a total bitch and started hooking up with randoms and taking drugs for the first time. I sought and obtained invaluable advice from this forum with those issues, so thanks guys. Thing is, she's started trying to turn people against me....through facebook status'. I know - real mature right? She's 22 and she's trying to make me look bad. Basically, she's thinking up every somewhat negative thing I've done/said in the past and then indirectly (but often almost blatantly) broadcasting it on Facebook for our mutual friends to see. I have done nothing to make her life hard, sought no revenge etc. I had great support around me that helped me do the right thing. I went NC, completely and utterly. I've heard she taked the party drugs frequently so I know the comedown from that can mess with someones head, especially if theyre already unstable, but god damnit...I'm so exhausted because I feel like I've been doing everything right and now she's just lashing out at me to **** with my progress.
sloudrou Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 Let it go. The people who actually know you will see through her games. Just continue moving on with your life and let her play her own games. Eventually she'll get tired of it and find something else to do.
Don Ho Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 She's on drugs and very immature. Continue to take the high road bro. It will all work out in the end. Continue with the NC. At some point people will see that's she's on drugs, a mess and the one being a biatch. If they don't ever get it, then they probably weren't worth having as friends. That aside occupy your time and try to stop thinking about what she's doing. You know that only drives you crazier.
Author cleveraccountname Posted August 5, 2010 Author Posted August 5, 2010 Thanks guys. You're right, I should try to just let it go, and I am, and I don't even know why it's affecting me so much. I guess I'm just hurt that after not doing anything to make her life harder post-breakup, she's actively trying to mess with mine. People can be so horrible!
linwood Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 Just ignore it. Let people believe what they want to believe. They will anyway. No loss for you.
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