LK30 Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 Well i've hit the 6 months no contact, although please tell me how STUPID i am that I sometimes have a look on her mate's FB to see if my ex has written anything about what she's up to. I guess I can't get rid of that final attachment, but I have stuck to NC apart from that and trying my best to move on, but I do find moving on from girls so hard! I could really do with a girl in my life right now. I miss the romance, and of course the intimacy! Over 6 months single and I might as well be a ghost as every girl seems to see through me. People say you need to be happy with yourself, but don't feel I'll truly move on 100% from my previous r'ship until I meet someone else. I just want to feel loved - i'm only human!!
bonpaw2008 Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 Well i've hit the 6 months no contact, although please tell me how STUPID i am that I sometimes have a look on her mate's FB to see if my ex has written anything about what she's up to. I guess I can't get rid of that final attachment, but I have stuck to NC apart from that and trying my best to move on, but I do find moving on from girls so hard! I could really do with a girl in my life right now. I miss the romance, and of course the intimacy! Over 6 months single and I might as well be a ghost as every girl seems to see through me. People say you need to be happy with yourself, but don't feel I'll truly move on 100% from my previous r'ship until I meet someone else. I just want to feel loved - i'm only human!! LK congrats!!! That is a long time and it seems like you are doing well!!! It is only human to want to feel loved, but don't use getting into a relationship as a crutch to get over her, you have gotten this far, don't sell yourself short and ease into it slowly. Good job again!
Author LK30 Posted August 5, 2010 Author Posted August 5, 2010 Cheers Bonpaw! There are days where I hate going NC and others where I am glad I am doing it. Thank god for this website! I keep seeing women around who I like the look of, but everyone seems coupled up! I wish I could look into a crystal ball to find out when I will meet someone as it could be a long time yet!
bonpaw2008 Posted August 5, 2010 Posted August 5, 2010 Cheers Bonpaw! There are days where I hate going NC and others where I am glad I am doing it. Thank god for this website! I keep seeing women around who I like the look of, but everyone seems coupled up! I wish I could look into a crystal ball to find out when I will meet someone as it could be a long time yet! Girls will find you when you least expect it....keep working on yourself and you will be totally irresistible to those chicks in no time Stay off her FB though, you don't need to know what she is doing
Author LK30 Posted August 9, 2010 Author Posted August 9, 2010 I certainly hope they will find me! Was a bit gutted as I went to a wedding at the weekend, and there was a really nice girl there who I had seen previously at a similar event, and I was planning to make my move at the wedding. Typically she told my friend, whilst at the wedding, that she had a bf and he was on his way to join her for the evening reception. Just my luck again! The only consolation is that I heard that the bride had told this particular girl that I liked her, and the girl replied to her saying 'it's a shame as she wished she had know sooner as she has just gotten into a r'ship.' So I even though I lost out, if her words were true then perhaps she liked me and I am not the no hoper with love I perceive myself to be at the moment!
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