sh28 Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 Me and my husband have been married for 3 years but have been together for 6. We recently split up for about 5 months and have been back and forth for about 2 months. We have an 18 month old daughter. So these last couple of months he has been texting me and being more attentive but when our split happened he became really close to his coworker, which he finds very attractive. He tells me that he has no feelings for her just physical attraction but they constantly have contact (text, email, phone calls, messenger). He hides the fact that they talk because he feels im too jealous. But i think i should be since I am not doing anything like that. So my question is should i just let him be and not even try to work it out or is he just being a friend to her? should i trust him? i'm so in love with him that i don't even know how to handle this.
xpaperxcutx Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 Did you guys split up because of the coworker?
Author sh28 Posted August 4, 2010 Author Posted August 4, 2010 no, we split up because we were always arguing and other things
ali9878 Posted August 4, 2010 Posted August 4, 2010 I think it depends on how open of a relationship you want to have. If you are not okay with this, then don't be okay with it. You need to tell him how you feel and explain that if he wants things to work with you, he needs to keep his communications with this women completely professional. That's understandable to communicate about work, but to text his personal phone is inappropriate. You said he has no emotional attachment to this women, so this shouldn't be hard for him.
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