MissVegas Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 My boyfriend told me last night he's going to Vegas with his best friend. I went to Vegas with a good friend earlier this summer because he was not around for my birthday and told me he wanted me to go so he could then then go with his friend. Except I got really mad and upset when he told me he was going because just last week my boyfriend asked to borrow 810 dollars, he will pay it back within a few days for sure but he's always complaining how poor he is. When we talk about our future he says he's too poor to afford a ring and a wedding right now. As well he was not here for my b-day this year did not take me for b-day dinner or get me a gift, did not do anything for valentines day this year, i never get flowers, i never get taken out to dinner or movies or anything like that. I chalked it up to him lacking funds and have been understanding of this and I let these things slide. I always pay for things if I want to do them like dinner out, ice cream or a movie. And I always get him nice gifts because I work hard and have more money than he does, I took him to Vegas last year for his birthday It made me really mad that he can afford Vegas probably (1800 all together) but tells me he can't afford things to make me feel special? As well when I mentioned the ring and our future and how I must be low on his priority list he said "I don't want or need to buy you a ring right now". FYI My boyfriend has partied for the last 11 years of his life (he's turning 29). We've been together four years and he's partied hard throughout those years. He's always travelling without me with friends and I only travelled once without him. When he travelled one time he took a girls phone number from Denver and continued to flirt with her when he got home so I have some trust issues. We discussed how we were going to work on things and start our future and now he can afford Vegas but put me on the back burner? He says I'm selfish and crazy? Am I? Or is this guy just not that into me or us? Do I run? PLUS...ANY girls or guys have experience with their boyfriends or girlfriends going to Vegas? I went with my friend but we're both really nice girls in relationships and completely stayed away from guys or informed them we had boyfriends the whole time despite being cat called for 3 days straight.
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