fabio10 Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 Ok heres my story, Im 27 and 4years ago I started college and befriended this girl on my first day. I had no romantic desire towards her at all, we became best friends we used to tell each other everything about each other's love lifes and really clicked. After 4years of being best friends I decided to go to a different college for a change. We kept in touch. She had always been in relationships with guys and I was abit of a playa and always single, but last october she was single and it was her birthday so I decided to send her a gift as I knew it was her first brithday in many years being single. She was happy I did, 3weeks later she visited me in my new college we had a night out and ended up kissing. We kept it quiet at first and didnt tell many people and eventually it happened again and again whenever we met up so we started going steady it was amazing and she told me part of her always wanted me. We shared 7months together and everything was going great. Then one day she said we needed to talk, she said she was having doubts for the first time and that when we got together she was not ready for a relationship but only entered one cause it was with me she is 23 and has not been single since she was 15 really, when we got together she had been single for 8months. We had the talk she said maybe a break is what we needed, I was gobsmacked and I said that I didnt do breaks, in hindsight I see I should maybe not have said this but what is done is done. So we broke up and parted on good terms after afew tears, she said she knew she was being a fool and I was a great boyfriend and she actually could'nt believe how good a boyfriend I was considering I'd never been in relationships. She drove home and I went to bed the next day I awoke with a text from her saying I hope you know I love you etc, I was so confused, she kept texting me for the next 2weeks and we kept in touch, I brought up us getting back together afew times but she sorta gave mixed singles so eventually I said that I'd tried my best with her but maybe its best we aint friends anymore cause I was in love with her and I always would want more I was just being honest, she got mad said I was being selfish etc so we have not talked in 2weeks its so hard we were so close before but I cant be 'just friends'. The worst is in 4weeks time we are both in college together stuck in the same room together for the next 9months. I understood that she had never been single and wants to be free for awhile maybe, she described it as needing 'me time'. I told her I understood but when she kept texting me it just made me mad so I told her afew home truths I'd never spoken to her in the way I did I told her that she was a cold person and very flawed etc. I love her so much Im lost, do you think that maybe in a year or two time we have a chance of getitng back together. Im not going to put my life on hold but at the same time I would like to think that maybe in time when she has lived abit more and matured she would see what we have. Everyone said we were perfect together and that it was like something out of a film the way we best friends before. I think myself that it was just the timing why we broke up! Your opinions please !
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