Author Fluffsticle Posted August 23, 2010 Author Posted August 23, 2010 Hi angie44 I sympathise with you for your tough relationship experience. You sound like a really strong and admirable Person :-) Please don't compare my relationship to this. THe only issue I'm having is him being with another girl soon after us breaking up. He has never done or said anything wrong to me. This Man loves the bones of me, and ins the most honest Man I know. Don't tell me to walk away on my gut feeling. My Gut feeling is he's the best Guy I've ever met. My Gut feeling is I want to have his Babies some day. My Gut feeling is I could spend forever with him and be so happy I could burst. I just want to see things in a more positive way.
lonelygurl Posted August 23, 2010 Posted August 23, 2010 Hi Has anyone been with someone and broken up with them, and given it another go... and come across a lot of anger over things that happened during the break up? How did you get over this? I'd love to hear your stories, how it ended, how you got through it, or how it ended badly? I was engaged, with him for 7 years. We were so unbelievable in love, so infatuated.... relationship ended because we lost who we were as individuals, we missed our friends and family and in a way our lives were empty. Now we are back in touch. I have learned that he slept with someone 4 weeks after we broke up in our old bed, then 2 months after we were broke up he hooked up with one of the house mates, and continued the relationship with someone else in our old house and in our old bed. I dont' see a way past this. I am so angry, and I deal with things so differently. I don't understant him when he says he always loved me. How could he possibly do that to someone he loved? How? How do I deal with this anger? I love him, and love being with him, but at times it all comes up and I don't know if I have respect for him, I don't know who he is. The Person that would do that I don't love, and the Person who would do that is not the same as the Person I once loved. Maybe he is gone forevere.... Anyone with anything worth telling me, simplar situations that you've gone through. I've never been through anything like this, and I don't know what to do. I've asked him for space, because I don't want to row with him... Thanks.. I would suggest therapy on your own and possibly separate therapy with him. You need to decide if you can really get over your anger and hurt and if you really want to stay with him. Otherwise it is going to eat away and you will likely break up again. I wish I had of done a lot of things different when my X and I got back together.
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