stillafool Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 I reread both the posts- and didn't get that impression at all. I got the impression that she was referring to what the rest of us were (hygiene). Thank you that's exactly what I mean. When I say squeezing, I don't like the idea that her skin was in my garments. Also a size 34B, may fit her differently than another woman who is a 34B. My cousin and I both wear a size 8 and she borrowed a dress of mine (which I hate but let her anyway) and even after she had it cleaned it didn't fit me the same. Maybe it is all in my mind but I just gave her the dress.
Author star_light13 Posted August 13, 2010 Author Posted August 13, 2010 Thanks for all your replies. I never meant for anyone to get upset with eachother over anything re: this issue. This is my first ever post on here so I didn't realize that could happen. I understand the 'stretch' and hygiene issue. I do always wear my own bra and underwear under anything that I model. And I make sure I don't wear anything that I would have to stretch. I guess it's a toss up cause some buyers seem to not like clothes modeled on a real person and some seem to be more inclined to buy when it is on a real person. I talked w/ my BF again and he is tolerant of me doing swimsuits occasionally if I have to...but not lingerie. Which is fine really and I don't really want to do lingerie now that I think of it........but then for some reason it still bugs me. Or I get in this hypothetical situation and think 'well..what if i really did want to model lingerie really bad...would he not accept me then?' and then that makes me feel not accepted or loved. But I know that is hypothetical and stupid to go there. Maybe I am bothered that in the arguement he said 'It's one thing if you didn't realize things, but it's another if you were like 'it's my body and i can do what i want with it..i don't care what you think...and he said 'if it was the later that i was a different kind of person and he didn't know me like he thought he did'. Maybe I'm just misinterpreting this comment cause I'm taking it as controlling and thinking he doesn't support my own rights over my own body. Which I know is ridiculous cause he is very kind and not controlling or pressuring even re: sex or anything. I know he just meant that if I was a kind of person who thought only that it is my own body and i don't care at all what he is comfortable with....that i would be a different kind of person than the loving, caring, considerate person that i am. I think I may just be taking this comment wrong/out of context and getting bent out of shape about it. Sorry...i feel like i'm not really explaining it right. hope that makes sense. thanks.........sometimes that happens with us cause he admits that he is not the best at describing/explaining himself and then i take something wrong and when i tell him that...he says he didn't mean it the way i am taking it...and things get mixed up. i guess that can happen and is the reason why communication is important! thanks for listening,
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