sbradford2 Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 My boyfriend of 11 years on and off left and got his own apartment. I keep asking him to come back but he says that he likes having his own space right now and that he is still going to help out with the kids financially. And that we are still together just living apart. But I feel that the money that he is paying for in rent is money that we could be saving. He is living right around the corner from me so that he could come over and spend time with us whenever he wants. Let me add that he left because I was always nagging him and unhappy. But since he left should I let him come and go as he please or should there be any boundaries? What do you think of this situation?
Beeotch Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 My boyfriend of 11 years on and off left and got his own apartment. I keep asking him to come back but he says that he likes having his own space right now and that he is still going to help out with the kids financially. And that we are still together just living apart. But I feel that the money that he is paying for in rent is money that we could be saving. He is living right around the corner from me so that he could come over and spend time with us whenever he wants. Let me add that he left because I was always nagging him and unhappy. But since he left should I let him come and go as he please or should there be any boundaries? What do you think of this situation? I think you should first off decide if you want to still be a couple or not....and then make that status clear. That will easily define the boundaries.
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