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SHORT: (but please read long, it will make sense!)

My girlfriend has been distnat lately in our temporary LDR before school starts back up. We are 5 hours away and have seen each other 6 times this summer. She is very scared of relationships but still wanted to get into this one with me. She told me when I asked her what's wrong and if she still has feelings for me and she told me she doesnt think we click anymore and that we really havent gotten to know each other. She has told me lately she misses me but every time we talk on the phone she has to go after 5 minutes and we don't really get to talk much.

 

What do I do? I need direction

 

LONG:

Well, my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now and seeing each other for 3. We knew each other previously but only as acquaintances or very casual friends. We started seeing each other when we were finishing up the last semester of school. Since we both live in different cities 5 hours away in different states and both have busy jobs/internships and family to deal with we have only seen each other 6 times this summer.

It started off great. We talked/texted all the time, and used pet names, etc. Over the past month these things have stopped. We talk every other day or every 3rd day. Don't really text either. She started to seem very distant and I was getting sad/mad that sometimes she just wouldnt call me back so we had a serious convo on the phone. I asked her if she still had feelings for me, and she said she didn't know. She said she doesn't think we click anymore and that we really dont know each other. But she said she wants to see how things go when we get back to school and that she does want to start fresh when we get back, etc.

Well recently she told me she missed me. But every time we talk on the phone we never can get get into a real convo before she has to go or I have to go.

Since I know here, I think she was scared..because she always told me she was scared of relationships and now that we are in one and we cant see each other or really get to know each other because we aren't seeing each other I think she's just scared and confused.

 

My question is this, what do I do. Do I treat it like a girl I am seeing but not official with and prepare to start new when we are back? I just need some direction here.

 

Thank you so much for your help!

 

Mark

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You let her go. There's nothing worse than being in a relationship you really don't want to be in.

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