GordonDarkfoot Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 If obfuscation were money the OP would be a very rich man. Well, since OP's gender has not quite been clarified, "very rich person" is probably the preferable term. Also--I sincerely believe that the OP may actually suffer from dysphasia, which is why I mentioned it earlier in the thread. Therefore "obfuscation" may not be appropriate, because that implies a deliberate attempt to becloud the issues of concern to him/her. While OP seemed to express some degree of offense at my suggestion that OP suffers from this ailment, OP neither confirmed nor denied it. Numerous posts and I still cannot comprehend what his/her actual problem is. I`m probably just dense however.No, given OP's choice of screen name, I think it is likely that there may be a cognitive deficit on OP's part: Dysphasia: One in a group of speech disorders in which there is impairment of the power of expression by speech, writing, or signs, or impairment of the power of comprehension of spoken or written language. More severe forms of dysphasia are called aphasia. Aphasia: One in a group of speech disorders in which there is a defect or loss of the power of expression by speech, writing, or signs, or a defect or loss of the power of comprehension of spoken or written language. See, for example, auditory aphasia.
linwood Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 Ahh..that clarifies things. I should have looked into the malady the first time you mentioned it here. Thanks for the clarification of possibilities Gordon. My apologies to the OP.
Author disfasia Posted August 9, 2010 Author Posted August 9, 2010 Gordon I have not responded to your posts because your posts are condescending, sexist and homophobic. Sorry but I don't engage people like you. And you obsessivness I find troubling--you really insult by trying to psyhologize my name --as if everyone's tags are literal. You lack imagination and by the pedantic nature of your ranings here you are projcing deeply seated problems in a space that is communal. I wrote about a simple problem of a lover projecing problems into our eventual life together and at every turn you insult. Please stop. Name calling will just get you kicked off here. As for the actual situation, I have discussed this with friends and former lovers who seem to think this person has not ever been in a healthy relationship. Clearly when you live wig people you make hhoices to do things together when at home and if she is worried about controlling a future not yet lived it could mean hat she has issues of fear, control or who knows. I do know that sharing meals and not walking on eggshells because a partner is picky is a no brainer. Hopefully she will figure out why she has so many issues surrounding food. But in the end I am certainly free no to live with someone like this. If she needs to control everything inhr environment irrespective of her partner then I think she is best living alone.
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