Disillusioned Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 These kind of singles frustrate me to no end, then they turn around and gripe about attracting the wrong kind of person! One reason why I won't do speed dating anymore is because it's not for people who know what they want. I can't even count the number of women I've met at speed dating parties whom I've asked "so, are you interested in a relationship, or just the casual thing?" and they answered something along the lines of "umm... uhh... geez, I never really gave it much thought". I know there must be plenty of guys who pull this stuff too. Turn on the juice, see what shakes loose... I guess if you don't know what kind of person you want to meet (or don't care), that might work well for the serial date-&-dump lifestyle, but if you really want to meet keepers, sit down at the table with a pencil and paper and write out a list of what traits you like in a partner. Then go out, meet some keepers, and stop gumming up the works for those of us who DO know what we want! BTW if you think I'm full of crap, I can name one happily married professional woman who will tell you to write out a list because it worked for her. I took her advice, and incredibly enough, I met 2 women before I pulled the ad. If a fat ugly slob like me can meet women this way, so can you.
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