whoisthisguy Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Hey guys, and girls ! So again, i dated jude for 26 months, live togather for 14 months. We loved each other a lot and she did every possible effort to make things work. In the last few months i messed up the things coz i didn't know what i want , i got scared of how serious it gets. She broke up with me, told me she loves me, but i hurt him so much, its over. I thought i give her and myself some time and space. I sent her a latter about: - i apologiesed for how i behaved in the last few months - told her i wont call her for a while coz we need time to know what we need Then after 6 weeks i contacted her, i wanted to tell her how i feel. I told her , i know i was the one who messed up the things, but now, in this 1-2 months i realised how much i need her. She got angry at me, told me i'm a jerk and that i should move on. She told me that she is already over me and do not contact her. I told her , if u are over someone, u dont get upset just by speaking with him. She told me she dont want me back ever again, and leave her alone. So, i think i just have to move on, i gave her time, and she decided she doesnt needs me anymore. Everyone thinks the same?
stillafool Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 I'm sorry you are hurt. She told you how she felt and you have to move on. Don't try with her again or she may lose respect for you. NC is the best thing you can do for yourself at this point. I feel for you and we are here if you want to post. Good luck.
Author whoisthisguy Posted July 31, 2010 Author Posted July 31, 2010 (edited) So, today my friend (who happend to be her cousin) met with her and speak over the things about me. She told him to tell me, she does not hate me or angry at me, she just has decided that she dont want anything from me anymore, not even friends. I know i'm a hopeless romantic, i will go NC and become everything she ever wanted in me, maybe i'm just to confident but even if i dont get her back, i wont have regrets. AND THATS ALL FOLKS ! Edited July 31, 2010 by whoisthisguy
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