sam light Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 I've been seeing a former colleague Jane for months. We worked together years ago when she was married. She divorced several years ago. We get along great, but we are agreed that this won't likely grow into anything bigger than our Saturday over-niters. She is in her 40's, we take turns, her place, then mine. We were freer at my place (noise and nudity) because her 2o something daughter moved back in with her. Her daughter is an undisciplined spendthrift and has lost her apartments more than once. Jane put her through 2 years of college, paid her rent many times, etc and she is tired of it. The daughter isn't allowed overnite guests, while her Mother the home owner is. To some extent Jane is using me to make her daughter feel uncomfortable. I was feeling pretty uncomfortable myself. The friction between them is evident. People telling the girl that her mother is hotter than her doesn't help. 6 weeks ago I woke up in the heat of passion, my joy was short lived when I saw that Jane was sleeping and wasn't responsible for my excitement. The crazy things that run through your mind in a couple of moments, was it a burgler, an animal, what. I looked down and was relieved to see it was Jane's daughter down there. I didn't know what to do so I pretended I was still asleep. She loosed a couple of muffled giggles as she finished me off and tip-toed out of the room. My dilemma was (and still is) whether or not to tell Jane. In the last 4 weeks I've been making excuses as to why we can't use my place. At Jane's I've been taking care to sleep (truly I can't sleep) on my back, in the raw, on top of the bedding. On all but one evening the daughter snuck in and did her thing. I pretend to be sleeping, her quiet giggles turn to outright laughter when I pretended to snore, so I had to stop that part. My plan, if Jane wakes up, is to act as surprised as she is. That way her feelings won't be hurt that I somehow let this happen. I confess that this has been great fun, but I do have a conscience and don't want to hurt Jane. I'm thinking I should end it, but have some doubt that I should stop an incredible situation that hasn't yet hurt anyone. If I should end , how should I do it? Do I tell Jane or just discreetly tell the daughter to stop. Maybe sleeping on my stomach would be the simple way to stop her. LOL but it would prevent a most awkward conversation.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Sam, I thought you were the smart guy here, apparently I'm wrong. You're not a victim if you allow it to happen. I would call you an (un) willing accomplice. Chances are if you come clean to " Jane" she's going to kick your ass out of the house, but if you stay with her, you're going to be " bedding" both the mother and daughter. Ew, much?
Author sam light Posted July 31, 2010 Author Posted July 31, 2010 Sam, I thought you were the smart guy here, apparently I'm wrong. You're not a victim if you allow it to happen. I would call you an (un) willing accomplice. Chances are if you come clean to " Jane" she's going to kick your ass out of the house, but if you stay with her, you're going to be " bedding" both the mother and daughter. Ew, much?Thanks for calling the smart guy, thats nice of you. in some circles bedding both Mom and daughter is the score of a lifetime. I'm not especially turned on by that fact, but it is great to get taken care of by two women. You're right I can't tell Jane. The question is to let it go on or stop it. And how to stop it?
xpaperxcutx Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Thanks for calling the smart guy, thats nice of you. in some circles bedding both Mom and daughter is the score of a lifetime. I'm not especially turned on by that fact, but it is great to get taken care of by two women. You're right I can't tell Jane. The question is to let it go on or stop it. And how to stop it? Apparently sarcasms never comes across on a forum. I'm not condoning this, neither do I see any appeal in bedding both mom and daughter. And no I'm not riding on morale's high horse, but for you to just go along with everything right now just makes you a coward. If you like Jane at all, the non cowardly move would be to just come clean to her, but since you're not going to tell her, I suppose the next time you sleep over, just lock the door. That'll keep the daughter out.
Author sam light Posted July 31, 2010 Author Posted July 31, 2010 Apparently sarcasms never comes across on a forum. I'm reminded of the Woodt Allen movie where his prison mates called him the brain. He thought they meant it. When I come clean to Jane I will be getting action from nobody:eek:, thinking with the little head, Jane can be hurt now or hurt later. I don't think the hurt will be any less painful now than later. But at least one person (me) will do well if the end comes later.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 I'm reminded of the Woodt Allen movie where his prison mates called him the brain. He thought they meant it. When I come clean to Jane I will be getting action from nobody:eek:, thinking with the little head, Jane can be hurt now or hurt later. I don't think the hurt will be any less painful now than later. But at least one person (me) will do well if the end comes later. Right, the same Woody Allen that married his adopted daughter... Anyways, apparently thinking with your " little head" is better than thinking with your big one.
kdark Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Is this thread a joke? If not, that family is all sorts of f*cked up. I've done some twisted things in the heat of the moment, but to actively participate and attempt to prolong this situation is pretty abhorent. Do you know how much damage this is going to do to their family when the mom finds out?
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