I'm under 18 and I'm in a LDR and it's getting really complicated

[marianac]

Well, I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 16. We have been dating for 7 months and usually we didn't have any problems seeing each other when we were free, because his parents are divorced and his dad lives here with his grandmother in the same house.

But last time my boyfriend came here, a huge discussion happened between him and his dad and grandmother, and they even told my boy to leave.

Now he can't come here since that happens in his family, so, he doesn't have any place to stay if comes here, because his mom won't allow him to sleep in my house and my parents won't also allow me to go and visit him.

What would you do in my position? How can we see each other? Could you please give me some suggestions? Thanks

[TMichaels]

marianc,

 

Does your b/f not have any friends or relatives who live in your town? If you b/f has been kicked out of his father's/grandmother's home where is he staying, now?

 

Best,

TMichaels

[soultosqueeze]

i'm 18, and my boyfriend is 17. and we're in a LDR. LDR's are hard work. especially if you don't see them too often. my suggestion, have him talk to his mom or both of you talk to her, and see if you can convince her to have him stay with you? or talk to your parents? or whichever. with me and my boyfriend, his mom refuses to let him stay over, but he tells his mom that he's staying at his friends house who lives in my state. i know he's lying, but.. i would be devastated if i couldn't see him.

[quankanne]

see if you can spend the day together someplace that's equidistant to the both of you, your folks might be comfortable with that, esp. if you've got one of them or a trusted adult there acting as chaperone. It might sound like a huge drag, but believe me, it's more important to build up the trust between you and your folks to a point where they're comfortable with the idea of you and this boy together even though y'all are so far apart.

 

a side question: What happened that he was banned from being with his grandparents? I'm sure an argument ensued, but what was the cause of that argument?