ALombard Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Yeah didn't know what to title this... So for the last two weeks or so I've been avoiding my ex's phone calls and texts. Actually truth be told two weeks ago after she pulled something WAY beyond disrespectful I told her to leave me alone. She calls me four days later and I didn't answer and send me a text saying she's "sorry". Cool, whatever. Anyway I got a little drunk one day and talked to her when she called, MISTAKE. After the conversation that following night I told her kindly to please stop talking to me, to go off and have fun with her new boyfriend of three months, and to just cut me out of her life. I said all that through a facebook message. I then blocked her, again. Three days later she calls me and leaves a message asking me why I blocked her, etc. What is she trying to pull? I'm finally not hurting anymore or sad. I still miss her sometimes but I've got my life back together. I just can't seem to figure out what exactly she is trying to pull. She has told me countless times that her boyfriend doesn't want the two of us talking but she still will text me or call me at least twice a week, for the entire day. So yeah, guys, girls, whats up?
cookie2 Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Attention seeking. Self-gratification. Wanting to see if you're still on the line. Delete messages, delete her number, delete her texts. NC all the way. She will get the message eventually.
bonpaw2008 Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 She wants to keep you on a string. She doesn't want you but is devastated that you aren't pining away for her, calling her, trying to get her back. She sounds terribly immature, and if she did something so bad to you that you dumped her, leave her be. She will get tired of this game eventually when she is not receiving the gratification of getting to you and move on.... Good luck dude, you are totally on the right track and doing the right thing....
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