pureinheart Posted August 2, 2010 Posted August 2, 2010 I am cutting all contact now. Wont be easy. But have to start somewhere. Funny, it feels like im breaking up with a girlfriend. yet im not as we dont really have each other. I guess she has had two lives, one with me and then another when she returns home. Kind of best of both world. Anyway. was a silly, fun, dangerous, imature month. But I wont forget her! Live and learn! Hey one foot out of the grave:D...man, don't speak death over yourself:eek:...BTW glad you are cutting it off, and it is "breaking up"...it is a lose, a death if you will and treat it as such with the proper grieving processes... Hey, hang in there, there will be a girl who won't be attached and be all about you:)
skywriter Posted August 3, 2010 Posted August 3, 2010 When you fail, pull yourself up and give it a go again and again. You'll eventually be successful and stronger for it.
Author onefootinthegrave Posted August 5, 2010 Author Posted August 5, 2010 The NC has failed, we see each other just as much, feelings are stronger. wants are more. we cant do it. its just too hard, we both seem to need each other in our lives.
Mimolicious Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 The NC has failed, we see each other just as much, feelings are stronger. wants are more. we cant do it. its just too hard, we both seem to need each other in our lives. Good boy gone bad! Such a shame that you know that you are heading to no good and yet find that you "need" this person in your life. What exactly for? You're a penis in a glass to her. You sat on the couch cuddling in front of her 3yr old son? Don't you think he knows that mommy and daddy "love" each other and only "daddy cuddles mommy"??? Whoa! Real classy from the both of you, you guys belong together. Poor kid... his mother is such a loser!
U2RockZz Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 you are skating on thin ice.....innocent H of her will not remain innocent once he knows about it.....one of you or both of you are really going to be hurt too bad.....
Owl Posted August 6, 2010 Posted August 6, 2010 The NC has failed, we see each other just as much, feelings are stronger. wants are more. we cant do it. its just too hard, we both seem to need each other in our lives. No problem. Call her tonight while she's at home...only make sure that you explain all of this to her husband, so that he can reach this same level of understanding that the two of you have. Accept that you're going to be the destruction of her marriage and home life. Realize that the "cost" of all this wonderful contact the two of you share will be the complete and total emotional devestation of her husband, and the odds are decent that it will end her family life as it exists today as well. If you think it's hard now...wait until the excrement hits the rotary oscillating air circulation device. You think you have it tough? Guage that against what her husband will go through when the affair comes to light (which it will).
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