Msak89 Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 (edited) The final decree arrived today. - he promised he would have my back. And he ran. I was in Alaska, He was in Colorado. We both left our spouse to be together. We were married. Problems with my son who was acting out ended up in me staying a Second year to get him through high school. I was having trouble with getting my agency to arrange a transfer for me. More delay / finally I get my first big intervew/ it looked like a breakthrough. "he freaked and basically disappeared for two days. Within a week I had the "second" divorce petition. Not all our visits were magical. He would have fits of rage. We sought counseling. It helped. I saw his counselor with him, worked back from more than one act of unfaithfulness. Only to be told by his Christian counselor that he never forgave himself for leaving his first wife and was tormented by it. He felt guilty . And in order to put what he did behind him he had to put "things" related to that event out of his life. And that unfortunately included me. Hell, it only included me. So now that coulsenor is sorry, I'm sorry, and if he were here I'd make love to him and then call him a bit*h Edited July 31, 2010 by Msak89
lkjh Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 You left your ex to be with this guy and now you got burned. He did the exact same thing to you that you did to your ex. Live and learn
Author Msak89 Posted October 6, 2010 Author Posted October 6, 2010 So Fri. Night he calls says he still loves me. But he's being exclusive with someone. Then wants to have phone sex. With me.
The-Zen-Warrior Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Man, this is total "dis-functionality" at it's finest! I don't even know where to begin here, heck I'm not even going to try, I think someone needs to call up the Doctor Phil show and book these two people a spot on the show, I totally agree with forum member habs53, "Karma at its finest"! I would rather catch an incurable case of herpes than be in anyone of these peoples shoes! I'm out of here.......................peace out!
What_Next Posted October 6, 2010 Posted October 6, 2010 Umm, well if you BOTH left each others spouses for each other are you really surprised he ditched you? Shame on you both.
CM2009 Posted October 7, 2010 Posted October 7, 2010 Wow the Karma beast strikes again, my STBXW did that samething and now things are kinda s---y for her now. But that's what happends but I hope you learn from this situation that you put yourself in and move on have a productive life.....
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