cookie2 Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Well 8 days after D-day I have finally decided to take my wedding ring off. I've only been wearing it for 9 months but it feels really weird. When I put it on it felt so right, like it belonged there, with "Love always, Tara" inscribed on the inside. When I got my house key back, it felt really good. I'd been living in constant fear of her walking in until then, and to have the key was a great feeling of relief. But taking my ring off has really hit me hard. I've just been crying for about an hour now. I just want her back. But don't worry, NC will not be broken today! I can't forgive what she did. I just feel like ****
Author cookie2 Posted July 30, 2010 Author Posted July 30, 2010 Oh and I got a ****ing wedding invitation today too, addresses to Mr and Mrs. Just what I needed. Sigh.
collegeguy_24 Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 We all know your going through a tough time, but hang in there. You have this board for backup and support if you need it.
106rob Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Sounds like a tough day mate! But at least you have done it now And also I would seriously think of changing the locks anyway tbh you never know she may have had another key cut,last thing you want is to come home and she has cleaned you out, happened to my manager at work he went away to get his head strait came back to an empty house like bare!!
Beeotch Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Well 8 days after D-day I have finally decided to take my wedding ring off. I've only been wearing it for 9 months but it feels really weird. When I put it on it felt so right, like it belonged there, with "Love always, Tara" inscribed on the inside. When I got my house key back, it felt really good. I'd been living in constant fear of her walking in until then, and to have the key was a great feeling of relief. But taking my ring off has really hit me hard. I've just been crying for about an hour now. I just want her back. But don't worry, NC will not be broken today! I can't forgive what she did. I just feel like **** I don't know your whole story. I haven't been on these forums in a whiiiile but decided to come on tonight (I was here a lot last year when my ex and I broke up, it's a little over a year and I am testament that things do get better, you do gain clarity and especially if you allow the universe to show you, you can realize the lessons and reason for the situation you're in. But it does take time ) Hang in there. It takes a few go arounds on the emotional roller coaster, the ups and downs (WORSSST part, I know it and am glad to be over that loop) before you come off once and for all and move forward. Where you are now, is where you should be. Missing the person, feeling sad etc esp with each new step is quite normal and freakin hard but it won't kill you and as I said....I am PROOF that it does get better albeit hard to see. Just find confidantes who are positive ( people who are overly cynical or bitter are NO help ) and focus on the lessons in it for you and the things YOU can control to make your life/situation better.
bonpaw2008 Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Well 8 days after D-day I have finally decided to take my wedding ring off. I've only been wearing it for 9 months but it feels really weird. When I put it on it felt so right, like it belonged there, with "Love always, Tara" inscribed on the inside. When I got my house key back, it felt really good. I'd been living in constant fear of her walking in until then, and to have the key was a great feeling of relief. But taking my ring off has really hit me hard. I've just been crying for about an hour now. I just want her back. But don't worry, NC will not be broken today! I can't forgive what she did. I just feel like **** So sorry Cook, but I am proud of you for taking this step. Now just about a million more and we will be ok....
smk Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Well 8 days after D-day I have finally decided to take my wedding ring off. I've only been wearing it for 9 months but it feels really weird. When I put it on it felt so right, like it belonged there, with "Love always, Tara" inscribed on the inside. When I got my house key back, it felt really good. I'd been living in constant fear of her walking in until then, and to have the key was a great feeling of relief. But taking my ring off has really hit me hard. I've just been crying for about an hour now. I just want her back. But don't worry, NC will not be broken today! I can't forgive what she did. I just feel like **** Hey Cookie - i can only imagine how hard it must have been for you, but look at it this way - you have reached the end of the chapter and now you need to turn the page and begin the next chapter in your life. We are all here for you, and as difficult as it was, it just wasnt meant to be. I am a huge believer in destiny and fate - we choose the journey we make to reach our eventual destiny, unfortunately her role in your life has now come to an end, and as sad as this day may be for you, try and look at the plus side, you can now begin living the rest of your life, which will be filled with other moments. Be strong and you know we are all here for you. How about going out today, not a mad one, but go to a park, go for a walk do something different today, treat it as you would any other day and try not to dwell on it. I know its a bitch, but hey c'est la vie.
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