EmptyPromises Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 i dated my ex for 2 and a half years. we were both in college & i just graduated. We broke up in may just because our relationship was getting to the point that we were fighting all the time and couldnt trust eachother. He cheated on me back in april and i had forgiven him for it but couldnt forget it and i think that was the spark to most of our arguments. we went pretty much no contact for 2 months besides one time where he got really angry that i wasnt answering his texts and he told me he had had a girl on the side the entire time we dated. i was pretty upset over this, he later told me that never happened it was just a way for him to get me to talk to him which completely backfired. anway, in the last month ive met this guy. weve been hanging out and hook up when we are drunk.hes very nice, rich, could possibly treat me like gold. hes 25 and has a job. however, hes been seeming very clingy lately and he scares me because im starting to think he wants to get married asap. i hooked up with him the other night sober and it was a little awkward and all i could think about was my ex. i woke up the next morning next to this guy and just wanted to cry. i wanted my ex to be beside me. i still love my ex. in the last week my ex has been calling and texting me nonstop. he wants to get back together and says he can treat me right. he says he will never hurt me ever again and can show me that. i have a hard time believing him because ive given him a ton of chances to show that to me in the past. and i feel like2 months of no contact isnt enough to make him want to change. another thing is hes still has one more year away at college and im going to be home. i told him no we cant get back together and its killing me. ive cried the past 2 days and have been extremely anxious. all i think about is him. the 2 things that are stopping me from seeing him are the school thing and the new guy(whom i really dont think im that attracted to). im miserablee i have no idea what to do and just wish someone could pick for me. opinions?
AlwaysConflicted Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Maybe your ex would be open to a non exclusive relationship since he's still away at school. Then you could date your ex and get to know the new guy without deception.
linwood Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Maybe your ex would be open to a non exclusive relationship since he's still away at school. Then you could date your ex and get to know the new guy without deception. That`s way too rational. That`ll never happen BUT I think it`s a great idea..
Author EmptyPromises Posted July 30, 2010 Author Posted July 30, 2010 thank you but i dont think either guy would be okay with that...or are you saying i shouldnt let them know? im going to meet up with the ex tonight...might not be a good idea but i miss him so much
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