Namul Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 (edited) My wife and I have had our share of problems. Some days it is a job to get along with each other. We have both hurt each other, and will probably be working on "us" forever. There are things we would both like to change about each other,but with all of that said, I cannot picture my life without her. I love her more each day than the day before. I never realised what I had in her until I almost lost it. My greatest fantasy these days is sitting in rocking chairs on the front porch surrounded by grand kids. She is a great mother to my three daughters, and a great wife to me. I wish everyone could have someone as special as her to love. Well crap cant edit the title to say "spouse" instead of spouce lol Edited July 30, 2010 by Namul tried to corect title
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 My wife and I have had our share of problems. Some days it is a job to get along with each other. We have both hurt each other, and will probably be working on "us" forever. There are things we would both like to change about each other,but with all of that said, I cannot picture my life without her. I love her more each day than the day before. I never realised what I had in her until I almost lost it. My greatest fantasy these days is sitting in rocking chairs on the front porch surrounded by grand kids. She is a great mother to my three daughters, and a great wife to me. I wish everyone could have someone as special as her to love. Well crap cant edit the title to say "spouse" instead of spouce lol I totally get were your coming from with this all tho were not married we have been thu some rough times and seams if you can get thu it that it will make your relationship that much stronger on the other side glad to hear your also still happy Namul..
quankanne Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Some days it is a job to get along with each other. We have both hurt each other, and will probably be working on "us" forever. and that, my dear child, is the the magic of marriage: You learn that in order to make it successful, you've got to work on it, even when things are going along swimmingly. And for the aggravation and hurt it may sometimes yield, it's definitely worth the effort :love:
flying Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 My wife and I have had our share of problems. Some days it is a job to get along with each other. We have both hurt each other, and will probably be working on "us" forever. There are things we would both like to change about each other,but with all of that said, I cannot picture my life without her. I love her more each day than the day before. I never realised what I had in her until I almost lost it. My greatest fantasy these days is sitting in rocking chairs on the front porch surrounded by grand kids. She is a great mother to my three daughters, and a great wife to me. I wish everyone could have someone as special as her to love. Well crap cant edit the title to say "spouse" instead of spouce lol I love this, thanks for posting. It's so nice to see these kinds of posts.
Curmudgeon Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 A good relationship, especially a marriage which embodies commitment, is hard work. Whatever our differences, and they are legion (that's half the fun), my wife and I haven't tried to change one another. We fell in love the way we were and while we've both made accomodations over the course of almost 14 years, we're comfortable with each other just the way we are. What I specifically love and appreciate about my wife are the facts that she's decisive and she is not into drama. Both are a very pleasant and restful change after 25 years of marriage to the ex.
GorillaTheater Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 A good relationship, especially a marriage which embodies commitment, is hard work. Whatever our differences, and they are legion (that's half the fun), my wife and I haven't tried to change one another. We fell in love the way we were and while we've both made accomodations over the course of almost 14 years, we're comfortable with each other just the way we are. What I specifically love and appreciate about my wife are the facts that she's decisive and she is not into drama. Both are a very pleasant and restful change after 25 years of marriage to the ex. Curmudgeon! When I first came here, you were among the posters whose threads provided me alot of inspiration of how to stand in a marriage. And although unrelated (to a point) with that subject, this was my favorite thread of yours: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=88685 You don't know me from Adam, but it's good to see you here.
Curmudgeon Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Curmudgeon! When I first came here, you were among the posters whose threads provided me alot of inspiration of how to stand in a marriage. And although unrelated (to a point) with that subject, this was my favorite thread of yours: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=88685 You don't know me from Adam, but it's good to see you here. Oh my! I'd forgotten about that post, and the responses. It still holds true today, four years later. One of the things I love about where we retired is the old-time values that prevail. Men are men and women are women. Patriotism is honored and visible, veterans are valued and appreciated, gentlemen don't have to apologize for or fear being attentive, guns are considered tools, not macho accessories or unnecessary appendices. Legally a man's (or woman's, for that matter) hopme is considered their castle, can be defended without repercussions and government is not intrusive. Having said that, I can still beat my hairy chest, drag my knuckles and struggle to walk upright as a daily challenge and I'm keeping good company. Thanks for the reminder!
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