jessyboo Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Well, for one, I've just graduated high school and on my way to university. Of course it's the summer after post-graduating that everyone has to run their mouths right? One of my ex-friends told me earlier today that she's been using me for the last 6 months. Her and her other friend I'm not really close with teamed up against me over a Facebook argument. What pisses me off is that, they've always been afraid of me. Assuming they'll "never see me in real life again", which is what one of them said, what if we coincidentally bump into each other at the mall? Restaurant? On the street? What will they say then? There's a huge story behind all this, but it's like, a literal long story. I'm currently on another forum, as a moderator. My "friend" joined that forum, assuming it was okay with me, which it wasn't. I didn't want anyone I know in real life to be on that forum since I separate it from my real life. I was so infuriated earlier, because of what she admitted openly, acting like she's big and tough, when in reality she's completely terrified of me. (She weighs around 80 pounds and is believed to be anorexic or something). The reason I'm very very angry and infuriated earlier was because she and her "other" friend would NEVER say such things to me to my face, but now that high school is completely over, they let it all out over Facebook and MSN. They know that if I saw them outside of the internet now, they would not know what hit them. I am so fed up with girls or people in general that plan on backstabbing you because they're too scared to do it. I really needed to get this off my chest, I would've vented on my other forum, but they stalk me on there now and try to ruin my really good reputation there as a moderator.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Chill! High school dramas are so unnecessary, and if your so-called friends are dissing you, you either be the better person and ignore them, or you beat the crap out of them in a catfight! I prefer the former. Besides, you'll make new friends in college. You should put your anger to more positive actions, like... what are you going to wear for the first day of class? Definitely need to go shopping.
dcdatingdiva Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Yeah, I really wouldn't worry too much about these so-called "friends". They seem really immature, especially since they choose to pick their battles online rather than be mature and voice their true feelings in person with you. I think you would feel a lot better cutting ties with these mean girls and moving on as well. You don't need negative people like that in your life and it sounds like there are some pretty amazing things in your future with college and meeting so many new and exciting people. Trust me, I had some pretty horrible friends back in high school and now that I'm almost done with uni, I can't even remember the names of those girls. All these fights that seem so huge and important now will be just a distant memory for you in the future- no need to worry!
blueyedgrl85 Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 Even though it's hard, try to ignore them. Eventually they will get bored and move on. They start the fights online because like you said, in real life they know you could pound them to a pulp. But again, you are all moving on to college so it isn't worth it. If you happen to run into them, just be polite and then move on about your day. You'll meet better, more mature friends in college. All the best!
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