shawnm789 Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 ....next week,unbeknownst to my OMW,i am planning on talking to her about our A and let my feelings known about how i feel that she has treated me and what her motives are.feeling like im only table scraps to her and not a human being is tiring.how honest should i expect her to be with me?im thinking 20-80...maybe less.....its just time for me to be completely honest with my feelings and i dont care how she reacts....shes gonna know..and if thats it....then fine......i get to move on with my life....
skywriter Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 i get to move on with my life.... ....and Shawn, this is the best thing you can do for yourself. That, and learn from getting involved, with an already commited person ever again.
Author shawnm789 Posted July 29, 2010 Author Posted July 29, 2010 Shawn why wait? hazyhead-i know i could cut the rope loose now...but i need to know if there was/is any motive(s) behind what shes doing.....becuase ive read on here countless times-if they cheat with you,they cheat on you-and i have a feeling that did happen....so i want to see how honest(if at all)she will be with me.....
young&inlove Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 hazyhead-i know i could cut the rope loose now...but i need to know if there was/is any motive(s) behind what shes doing.....becuase ive read on here countless times-if they cheat with you,they cheat on you-and i have a feeling that did happen....so i want to see how honest(if at all)she will be with me..... Of course she has "motives". She wants to have her cake (her husband, family, house, kids, ext.) and eat it too (that means you!).
whichwayisup Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 ....next week,unbeknownst to my OMW,i am planning on talking to her about our A and let my feelings known about how i feel that she has treated me and what her motives are.feeling like im only table scraps to her and not a human being is tiring.how honest should i expect her to be with me?im thinking 20-80...maybe less.....its just time for me to be completely honest with my feelings and i dont care how she reacts....shes gonna know..and if thats it....then fine......i get to move on with my life.... She will play you like a fiddle. Tell you what you want to hear. Do you really think she's going to change? Her motives are...Never divorcing...Keep you as the OM in her life to fulfill her selfish needs. She wants an affair, you want a relationship and want more. Anyway, I hope you find the strength to tell her goodbye so you can let go and heal. Wasting your love and energy on someone who is married is only going to hurt you in the long run. You deserve better and more! She cannot provide that to you..Ever.
linwood Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 Let me get this straight. The OP is married. Having an affair with a married woman. Is upset because his AP is sleeping with yet another OM. What did I get wrong? I`ll go read the back story.
Author shawnm789 Posted July 29, 2010 Author Posted July 29, 2010 Let me get this straight. The OP is married. Having an affair with a married woman. Is upset because his AP is sleeping with yet another OM. What did I get wrong? I`ll go read the back story. linwood-if you read my original post i stated that i had the feeling she was...not that she was involved with OM....
linwood Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 You`ve got to be kidding me. You`re cheating on you`re wife with her. She`s cheating on her husband with you. And you`re upset because you think she may have yet another OM somewhere? WTF is wrong with the world?
xpaperxcutx Posted July 30, 2010 Posted July 30, 2010 You`ve got to be kidding me. You`re cheating on you`re wife with her. She`s cheating on her husband with you. And you`re upset because you think she may have yet another OM somewhere? WTF is wrong with the world? Well supposedly everyone wants to have a last fling before 2012? People should not get married if they can't keep it in their pants or keep things out of it.
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