juschilln Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 i havent been on here for awhile but just thought id give it a shot....me and my ex broke up over a yr ago thats kinda how i found this sight..to make a long story short we still care for each other i know that but the day we broke up i already told her we werent gonna be friends...ive tried no contact and somehow someway she gets ahold of me and we end up talkin (i never initiate)...i still care for her but at the same time i cant get rid of her ive told her time and time again we have no reason to talk..lol she has another man what does she want from me? ive always thought if u were with someone else why do u need to talk to an ex?? maybe i can get some answer?
skydiveaddict Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 She wants to talk to you to displace guilt. Simple as that
Author juschilln Posted July 29, 2010 Author Posted July 29, 2010 i do understand....but still feelin guilty after over a year?? after tellin her many times "goodbye"??
skydiveaddict Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 yes 'cause she knows you feel bad and she doesn't want it to be her fault. she is a coward
Author juschilln Posted July 29, 2010 Author Posted July 29, 2010 i know what ur sayin...but i dont feel bad about anything ive moved on..so is she suppose to feel guilty forever? she already has another bf it dont bother me at all but its like she keeps comin back every now and then even if its somethin little...at first when she was contacting me i did feel like she felt guilty but now its been over a year and its like what what do u want?? do u know where im gettin at?
skydiveaddict Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 that's what you should say: "What do you want, I forgive you. Leave me alone"
2sunny Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 she's stringing you along. tell her to buzz off - that way you can concentrate on dating someone who won't be as hurtful as you let her be to you. she does it because YOU LET HER. so stop it.
Author juschilln Posted July 29, 2010 Author Posted July 29, 2010 im not disagreeing with either of u but like i said ive already told her like 2 or 3 times to be gone....im no longer a part of your life..it doesnt bother me that she tries to contact me but at the same time after i told her several times to go be with your man? we have nothing to do with each other anymore! i have ignored her and yet she still finds a way to contact me. lol i guess i dont get it maybe never will
AlwaysConflicted Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 Maybe she wants to be your friend, regardless of whether you want it. I have ex's with boyfriends that still get in contact with me from time to time. They don't want anything from me, except to chat.
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