agonizingoverthis Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 (edited) Whether we ended up Together or apart I trusted that you Would protect my heart Now I learn that When you ran away You emailed your club To say Let's have a meetup To bash men I left my man And now I want To belabor his Faults All that we can. You always insisted As my fears persisted That your loyalty Was top pedigree But as the truth unfurls I must disagree You are like The other girls. Background: She assured me for a year and a half that she wouldn't hurt me like past girlfriends had. Now she has far surpassed them in the pain she has caused, for more reasons than are contained in this little poem. How will I ever trust again? How? Edited July 28, 2010 by agonizingoverthis html problem
spellcatcher Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 Lovely poem... but I don't think anyone can ever promise not to ever hurt someone else. Best you can do is try... and even if it fails... the hurt may not be done intentionally... Women deal with breakups differently i guess... if i couldn't talk to my friends about some of mine, I probably would have died. The emotional build up is sometimes unbearable and I envy men who can suffer in silence or have the amazing gift of -getting their mind off it-. Most of the time though... its not so much to bash men as to reassure eachother we are still worth to be loved and many times it's just to say how much we miss him. Sometimes it's to look for advice on how to cope... and in some occasions yes... it is to complain of his offenses and get the support and encouragement from someone who DOES still care / love us. But all in all, the goal is to cope.
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