fresco Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 Just registered and i figured id post something on here since i've been reading for a while but i've been too lazy to make an account lol. I was recently dumped by who i thought was the girl of my dreams. I realize now that the girl i cared for probably never existed as she did a good job of showing me her true colors after we broke up. She told me all these things about how she loved me (even the day before we broke up), and then all of a sudden it was i just wanna be friends with you out of the blue. Anyway we had a huge fight and a lot of nasty things were said and we stopping talking altogether. The day after our blowout i sent her a facebook message apologizing (even though thinking back i had no reason to with all of the nasty things she said about me). Her response back to me was the last time we talked, and she basically just apologized as well. Anyway im not sure why im writing this really lol. I just really miss her friendship and the way we used to be pretty badly, and its nice to vent it out a little. I also wanted to let all of you know that your stories inspire me to keep NC even in my weakest moments (every single day pretty much). So thanks a lot guys . Anyway im on day 5 of NC and its super hard i give everybody on here credit, and thanks for posting all of your stories they really do help!
smk Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 Just registered and i figured id post something on here since i've been reading for a while but i've been too lazy to make an account lol. I was recently dumped by who i thought was the girl of my dreams. I realize now that the girl i cared for probably never existed as she did a good job of showing me her true colors after we broke up. She told me all these things about how she loved me (even the day before we broke up), and then all of a sudden it was i just wanna be friends with you out of the blue. Anyway we had a huge fight and a lot of nasty things were said and we stopping talking altogether. The day after our blowout i sent her a facebook message apologizing (even though thinking back i had no reason to with all of the nasty things she said about me). Her response back to me was the last time we talked, and she basically just apologized as well. Anyway im not sure why im writing this really lol. I just really miss her friendship and the way we used to be pretty badly, and its nice to vent it out a little. I also wanted to let all of you know that your stories inspire me to keep NC even in my weakest moments (every single day pretty much). So thanks a lot guys . Anyway im on day 5 of NC and its super hard i give everybody on here credit, and thanks for posting all of your stories they really do help! Vent and rant away buddy... we have all been there...
Author fresco Posted July 29, 2010 Author Posted July 29, 2010 i think you need to move on mr. fresco I think so as well. I guess part of me just hopes she'll miss me. I know i miss her every day we really connected on so many levels. I just don't see how she could give that up without a second thought
smk Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 I think so as well. I guess part of me just hopes she'll miss me. I know i miss her every day we really connected on so many levels. I just don't see how she could give that up without a second thought We all wish that and you know what - just as we make progress they think of us and come and screw up all the progress we have made...
Author fresco Posted July 29, 2010 Author Posted July 29, 2010 We all wish that and you know what - just as we make progress they think of us and come and screw up all the progress we have made... You're so right. And she wanted to stay friends and i told her i couldn't and now im kind of regretting it. Is having them in your life as a friend better than nothing? I just don't know. I'd feel like a fool continuing to talk to her when she obviously played me from the very beginning. She told me she never meant it when she said she loved me and that she just said it out of pity, and that i was pathetic and a scrub and she could do ten times better. Granted i did say a lot of mean things to her as well, but i just don't know. I never expected any of that from her
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 She told me she never meant it when she said she loved me and that she just said it out of pity, and that i was pathetic and a scrub and she could do ten times better. Granted i did say a lot of mean things to her as well, but i just don't know. I never expected any of that from her WOW. You dodged a bullet, mate. You do NOT need people like that in your life. Kicking you when you were down? CLASSY lady *cough* You will do so much better! This was just a practise run for the real thing Best of luck
Author fresco Posted July 29, 2010 Author Posted July 29, 2010 WOW. You dodged a bullet, mate. You do NOT need people like that in your life. Kicking you when you were down? CLASSY lady *cough* You will do so much better! This was just a practise run for the real thing Best of luck In her defense i did say a lot of mean things to her as well. Like i said we had a big blowout because i was so angry with her with how sudden this all was. The day before she was telling me shes never felt this way about anybody before, and the next day its i dont like you anymore as more than a friend and you're pathetic. I just feel used :/ and i feel stupid for missing her still
Author fresco Posted September 13, 2010 Author Posted September 13, 2010 Just registered and i figured id post something on here since i've been reading for a while but i've been too lazy to make an account lol. I was recently dumped by who i thought was the girl of my dreams. I realize now that the girl i cared for probably never existed as she did a good job of showing me her true colors after we broke up. She told me all these things about how she loved me (even the day before we broke up), and then all of a sudden it was i just wanna be friends with you out of the blue. Anyway we had a huge fight and a lot of nasty things were said and we stopping talking altogether. The day after our blowout i sent her a facebook message apologizing (even though thinking back i had no reason to with all of the nasty things she said about me). Her response back to me was the last time we talked, and she basically just apologized as well. Anyway im not sure why im writing this really lol. I just really miss her friendship and the way we used to be pretty badly, and its nice to vent it out a little. I also wanted to let all of you know that your stories inspire me to keep NC even in my weakest moments (every single day pretty much). So thanks a lot guys . Anyway im on day 5 of NC and its super hard i give everybody on here credit, and thanks for posting all of your stories they really do help! Wow. Haven't posted on here in a couple months but i thought id come back and let you guys know i met somebody a thousand times better than my ex. And she was right next door to me the whole time i was dating her. Don't give up hope guys! I was down and out a few months ago and now i honestly couldn't be happier. All i gotta say is keep your head up and your eyes open. You never know who you might be missing out on!
ShannonMI Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 You're so right. And she wanted to stay friends and i told her i couldn't and now im kind of regretting it. Is having them in your life as a friend better than nothing? I just don't know. I'd feel like a fool continuing to talk to her when she obviously played me from the very beginning. She told me she never meant it when she said she loved me and that she just said it out of pity, and that i was pathetic and a scrub and she could do ten times better. Granted i did say a lot of mean things to her as well, but i just don't know. I never expected any of that from her Being friends with an ex is nearly impossible. Don't regret saying you didn't want to be friends with her. Trying to be friends with her will only cause you more pain. Plus why would you want to be with someone that said such crappy things to you? And you said she played you from the beginning? She doesn't sound like a very genuine person. Girlfriend or friend, she isn't someone you want in your life.
ShannonMI Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Wow. Haven't posted on here in a couple months but i thought id come back and let you guys know i met somebody a thousand times better than my ex. And she was right next door to me the whole time i was dating her. Don't give up hope guys! I was down and out a few months ago and now i honestly couldn't be happier. All i gotta say is keep your head up and your eyes open. You never know who you might be missing out on! Good for you!
Shakz Posted September 13, 2010 Posted September 13, 2010 Little bits and pieces. We drop them, then we pick some up. Sometimes we carry a few of them them around with us for a time. I hope you find your happiness, Frescoe, but remember you're young. Plenty of time to spill the bits and pieces. Plenty of time to gather them up.
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