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UGH! Just got a "hi" text from ex after 7 days NC


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Thats just my philosophy though, I know some people like to be friends with every one they've ever met and their mums! :)

 

 

hee hee, and their mums....

 

I get what you are saying, but FB for me is reconnecting with those people that I haven't seen in 20 years due to a variety of factors. I got divorced 2 years ago and it really helped me get on with my life, and unfortunately let this deadbeat loser back into my life, but for the most part the connections are positive and healthy.

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Sorry for monopolizing my own thread :laugh: but I told two close friends in my group what happened, and asked them how to handle the group. They told me to just ride it out and see what happens. We will see....if I see too much stuff from him on it I may have to leave.

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I don't get why people have so many FB friends, personally. The only friends I have are people who are actually my friends or relatives, and who would actually give a damn when my relationship status changed from "married" to "it's complicated". That's when you find out who really cares. Why would anyone want people they barely know to see their holiday snaps or daily updates of what they ate for dinner? I'd recommend major pruning, 170 friends in common, do you really speak to all of them?

 

People use FB in many different ways for many different reasons. Coming here and trying to belittle someone because they don't do things the way you do is a complete waste of time and off topic to the thread. You must be pretty desperate for attention.

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People use FB in many different ways for many different reasons. Coming here and trying to belittle someone because they don't do things the way you do is a complete waste of time and off topic to the thread. You must be pretty desperate for attention.

I didn't belittle anyone, I just expressed my personal preferences. I said how I use facebook. Bonpaw asked for advice to reduce contact (see her bold text?) and I advised reducing number of friends. I didn't criticize anyone for how they use facebook. Did you actually read bonpaw's previous post, that quoted part of mine? Care to re-read it? You are the only person here who is belittling people and attention seeking. Go away.

 

Sorry bonpaw... back to your thread, which you are free to monopolize as much as you like :D

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