smk Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 is it them that we miss, the relationship that we miss, the companionship, the physical aspect, the whole package... I am at this place where I am beggining to realise that out of everything its the companionship that I miss, knowing that I could count on her... Any thoughts????
Feelin Frisky Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 I assume the relationship ended amicably beacuse if it was rancorous, you wouldn't miss them. I pined for someone I broke with still on good terms. Probably still do. But I can't see missing the last one--she caused me so much heart ache. I may miss having that sexual dynamo she was but when I put her split personality into the picture, I have nothing but revulsion. Obviously, it was not an amicable break but a hardy eff you.
Username37 Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 is it them that we miss, the relationship that we miss, the companionship, the physical aspect, the whole package... I am at this place where I am beggining to realise that out of everything its the companionship that I miss, knowing that I could count on her... Any thoughts???? I miss everything about my ex. She was so sweet, the physical aspect was AMAZING and the way we opened up to each other was just beautiful. We both accepted each others faults and strengths and we thought we would last forever. And she was my best friend in the whole world. Now that we're broken up, it just sucks. I lost two people. My gf and my best friend. I can't be friends with her after this. I just can't.
Author smk Posted July 28, 2010 Author Posted July 28, 2010 I assume the relationship ended amicably beacuse if it was rancorous, you wouldn't miss them. I pined for someone I broke with still on good terms. Probably still do. But I can't see missing the last one--she caused me so much heart ache. I may miss having that sexual dynamo she was but when I put her split personality into the picture, I have nothing but revulsion. Obviously, it was not an amicable break but a hardy eff you. our relationship ended due to alot of external influences, but nonetheless there is always more than meets the eye... I wouldnt call it pining for her, but before she came along I used to be quite emotionally detached, and then she came along and I wont lie i did get attached emotionally and we became ver close very quickly.. The chemistry was great between us, the physical aspect was out of this world, but most of all the emotional bond we had was something words cant explain, the companionship was wow - and thats what i miss the most
davisc123 Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 I really miss the companionship. I was talking to a couple of guy pals who are both in LTR's about my situation. They are what I would call 'men's men', not the type I would usually seek solace from. They surprised me by saying they would miss just having their partners around to do the everyday stuff if they were to break up. That they would be 'lost' without them. I am getting over the heartache but I miss having someone around. Somebody who lights up when they see you. I have to remind myself I don't miss my ex per se, I miss having somebody who used to be that way with me. But she wasn't like that in the end.
Author smk Posted July 28, 2010 Author Posted July 28, 2010 I really miss the companionship. They surprised me by saying they would miss just having their partners around to do the everyday stuff if they were to break up. That they would be 'lost' without them. I am getting over the heartache but I miss having someone around. Somebody who lights up when they see you. I have to remind myself I don't miss my ex per se, I miss having somebody who used to be that way with me. But she wasn't like that in the end. wow this describes my situation exactly. I miss seeing that look in her eyes, and having that look in my eyes when I saw... I think in a relationship when you take everything good away and you can still feel that, its one helluva feeling... and my ex gave me that feeling... I remember having butterflies in my stomach everytime I would see her... there are still moments even now that when I think of her I get that feeling.... unfortunately I just cant share it with her anymore... We both accepted each others faults and strengths and we thought we would last forever. And she was my best friend in the whole world. Now that we're broken up, it just sucks. I lost two people. My gf and my best friend. I can't be friends with her after this. I just can't. Again same situation here.... I lost my best friend and that hurts as much as the break up of the relationship
bonpaw2008 Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 I miss the fun that we used to have. He was always the life of the party doing crazy things. His silliness gave me a chance to not have to think all the time, to just feel. I was in a loveless marriage with little to no physical contact for 13 years. and it was refreshing that someone finally wanted me, I really needed that. But I got too attached to it, so every time he took it away I would feel like he was slighting me, or that it was heading towards the same place my marriage ended at. I miss his voice and the way he smells and how he always told me I was beautiful...
Author smk Posted July 28, 2010 Author Posted July 28, 2010 I miss his voice and the way he smells and how he always told me I was beautiful... i miss how she always answered my calls by with a little song - she always answred it by saying baby (my name) la la la - in a squeaky voice... oh and how sometimes she would stop me mid sentence or even in the middle of the street and look me in the eye and say I was beautiful and that she loved me....
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