whoisthisguy Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 So ladies, i already posted what happend with me amd my ex gf. Just to be clear. Dated for 26 months, live togather for 14 months. It was really serius. We were happy, and have a lot in common. In the last few months i got scared of how serious it gets, and i started to behave really insecure, she tried everything to make things work. I just wasnt myself that time, She broke up with me. Told me she still loves me but its just not working (i know she do , i can tell it), and leave him alone for a while. I didnt contacted her for 4 weeks. On the 5. week i called her but she didnt picked up the phone. I just gave her the time and space she needs. Now on week 6. i tried to call her again, but no response still. I know she just dont picks it up coz she still cant handle to talk with me, i know we were really in big love, and she was thinkin about our future all the time when we were togather. I dont know what to do? let her have more time? I just want to know what going on with her. I couldn't even tell her that in this 1-2 month i made the decision , and i know it now that she is the most important person in my life, and i'm sure now that i want her. She is really in pain now, just like me, and afraid of being hurt again i think.
Lela Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 If I was you, I probably wouldn't even call her anymore. It's been over a month, and you have already made the effort to contact her and talk to her, and obviously she isn't returning your calls. I know it's tough. I'm in day 11 from a break up, so I know how it feels....
spellcatcher Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 I respectfully disagree with the above poster. I think you should contact her at least for a chance to tell her how you feel. I would do it (even at the risk of rejection for which you should be prepared in case she sends you away). If I were you, I would tell her the truth about your feelings and let her decide (especially since she made the effort to stay together, she must have cared and wanted it to work) At the very least... even if she says NO... you won't have to live wondering 'WHAT IF". It will give you peace of mind... in my opinion.
Author whoisthisguy Posted July 29, 2010 Author Posted July 29, 2010 (edited) So i contacted her, talked a while, then i told her how i feel. She told me to move on, and why i even cantacted her? She was rude, called me a jerk. Told me that she already moved on and that she doesnt even understand why i had to tell her how i feel. She was so upset, told me like 20 times in 1 min that she already moved on. I told her that if you have moved on then u shouldn't be so upset. I feel like it was a mistake to call her, its still to fresh to have a normal conversation. I know she is still not over me since she woundn't gone into a battle with me if she is already over me. So i think we still need time. Its just i hurt her feelings too much. I wont contact her until she contacts me. Now i feel like i just f***ed up my last chance. Guys, be strong, let them have the time they need, Edited July 29, 2010 by whoisthisguy
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