iheartbreak13 Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 (edited) I broke up with a girl out of anger 2 times. She still love me very much but doesnt wanna go back with me due to the insecurity that i might repeat the same mistake over again. I still love her VERY much and feel very stupid and regret for breaking up the relationship. What can i do to get her back? It been 4 days since our breakup. I try to convince her that i will change but she still not wanting to come back. Her mom told me not to give up trying becuz she still like me and all she is trying to do is to get even with me. But becuz i want her bak so bad i do not understand how to think straight when all of the evidents are piling up. Here are some: 1. She is angry that i broke up with her 2. She is angry that i dont text her later on that day 3. She is also mad when i dont reply her text messages 3. She was mad when I didnt come to her house for bible study after the breakup. Then a few day later i acknowledge that i was so wrong and i done a mistake of letting her go over a stupid argument. I try to apologize and pour out my heart to her that i will change and i want her back so badly. But she still say no. She say let just be friend becuz she feel alot happier when we were friend. But i told hr that i can only move on if she break my heart and say she doesnt love me anymore. But she told me she still love me and i told her as long as she still love me i'm not gonna give up. And she just smile and say she dont wanna talk about it anymore. Here are a few evidents on my favor that kinda confused me: 1. She let me pick her up from work after the breakup 2. When we got to her house, she wore my T-shirt 3. I bought her a perfume as a gift (she say she dont want to take it becuz it will remind her of me) 4. She want me to keep something so i could think about her 5. She call me up from downstair to sit and watch a little show with her when i was just sitting downstair by myself. Even with all of this evident that it show that she still like me..i just dont know how to convince her to come back with me. I dont know when to give up trying. And i dont know if she want just to be friend or more then that. I dont know her motive whatso ever. What should I be doing to let her know i am trying to get her to come back? Should i stop texting / contact her completely for a few days? Edited July 28, 2010 by iheartbreak13
oldfashiongirlie Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 You should give her some days, and avoid contact to let her see if she misses you, maybe she's confused and needs to sort out her true feelings. If you really love her you shouldn't give up on her, but there is also a limit and I'm sure you'll know when to stop. You should think about why you get so mad and snap an break up when things get a little difficult., you are in a vicious cycle and you need to understand why and how you trigger it all together, just so you can break it for good. Good luck I am sure you two can learn a lot about yourselves if you are apart for a while, and then if you do get back together you will value and appreciate each other more.
Author iheartbreak13 Posted July 28, 2010 Author Posted July 28, 2010 I hope she didnt lose interest in me. And also giving her a few days seem like a good idea but hopefully there isnt anyone else to steal her away from me. She is so beautiful that after everyone knew about the news of our breakup so many guys are trying to hitting on her. But i will give her couple day without any contact and hope for the best
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