hellopeople Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 (edited) So it’s been roughly 6 months since my bf dumped me (messy) and 6 months of pretty much no contact. Granted, I would see him around from time to time but we never really had any sort of meaningful conversation. Then about three months in, I decided to break ALL CONTACT meaning I completely disappeared. I avoided the places I knew he would be and didn’t attend any parties I knew he would be at. So, it’s been roughly three months since I’ve laid eyes on him – and vice versa. Honestly, it’s been going great. I worked on myself and have turned my life around. I even started majorly crushing on one guy in particular. Everything seemed to falling into place. I felt like I was finally over my ex – well, almost completely over. And then bam! out of the blue, a couple of days ago I get a text from him. It actually upset me that he texted. I figured we had both realized we had moved on and were out of each other’s lives. And I was perfectly content with that. Anyway, the conversation was relatively short and I tried getting the message across that I didn’t really want anything to do with him – but in a polite way. I didn't want to ignore him b/c after 6 months - and almost being over him, I feel its kind of immature. This is how it went: EX: Hey, what’s up? How are you? Me: good, thanks. Hope all is going well with you too. EX: So, did you go to Spain like you had planned? Me: Yes, I did. The end. I know, I told you it was short. Short, and in my opinion, rather pointless. I’ve heard nothing else from him. But what I can’t figure out is why now? When my life was starting to pick up again, why did he have to come back into the picture? Why in the world would he text me? ARGH! Stoooopid exs! Edited July 28, 2010 by hellopeople
oldfashiongirlie Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 It is murphy's law, isn't it? just when you think things start falling into place...I'ts just how relatonships are. But you should feel good about yourself, because as long as you don't give him that power to come in and out of your life, you're a strong girl. And you know you don't want him back, and just knowing what you really want sure gives you peace of mind. Next time just ignore his texts or calls, no need to duel on it.
Author hellopeople Posted July 28, 2010 Author Posted July 28, 2010 Next time just ignore his texts or calls, no need to duel on it. Yup, good plan.
DenverBachelor Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 Why in the world would he text me? ARGH! Stoooopid exs! Maybe he missed you. Maybe he wanted a hook-up. Maybe he was feeling nostalgic. Maybe he was drunk.
nihilanth100 Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 Partial Quote: Rob: Mmmm... see, that's the thing, is somehow they know not to come back until you really forget. Mike: There's the rub. Rob: There's the rub. - Swingers Great movie.
Lela Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 Exactly what happened to me, he treated me like crap and finally when i decided to leave and left, 3 months after, he decides he wants me back, like an idiot, despite from what my friends were telling me, I let him back in, and now 4 months later, we broke up 11 days ago. They will never change!! If you got your life straighten out, which i'm trying to do now, and you're happy, don't do that to yourself....
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