OrdealByFire Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 I was juuuust wondering if it's typical for a woman to get ready, do her hair, and put make up on, with no intent of leaving the house that day. I simply asked my girlfriend why she did it and she pretty much went off on me "I don't have anything else to f***ing do." "I don't deserve this s**t." "I'm f***ing sick of it." Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 (edited) My wife always puts her makeup on.. unless she isn't feeling well... Don't you put on your deodorant and comb your hair each day ?.. so do they.. they just add the makeup into the mix.. I will say though that my wife has "degrees" of how or how much of her makeup is applied depending on what she is going to be doing.. ie: Hanging at home with the kid.. just the minimal amount of makeup in case someone pops over or she needs to go the the grocery store. Going to lunch with her GF's or a nice dinner she goes more full out.. So cut your GF a break and don't hassle her over her makeup Edited July 27, 2010 by Art_Critic spelling Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 OP, you're young, right? When I was younger, I always had makeup on, even if I had nowhere to go. Now at 32, when I'm at home alone, I pretty much only have mascara and chapstick on. That said, sometimes even with nowhere to go I'll play around with makeup, trying out new eye looks, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
carvidep Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 ok how simply did you ask her? and was it just the one time? if so then her response probably means she's doing it for someone else, judging from some of the things I've read in your other thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 27, 2010 Author Share Posted July 27, 2010 "Are you webcamming with someone else...? Is that why you're getting ready? Why would you doll yourself up if you aren't going anywhere?" She pretty much went off. Now we're talking. She's dropping "F" several times a sentence. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetjasmine Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 That said, sometimes even with nowhere to go I'll play around with makeup, trying out new eye looks, etc. Yeah, me too. Or if I picked up new eyeshadow and want to test out the colors. Or if I just get the urge to play around with it and try something new. If that were the case, and my SO started accusing me, I'd probably get pissed off, too. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 "Are you webcamming with someone else...? Is that why you're getting ready? Why would you doll yourself up if you aren't going anywhere?" She pretty much went off. Now we're talking. She's dropping "F" several times a sentence. Dude... Why all the jealousy ?.. you basically just accused her of getting ready to cheat on you.. If I were her I'd kick you to the curb for that type of controlling attitude without a reason. Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 Dude... Why all the jealousy ?.. you basically just accused her of getting ready to cheat on you.. If I were her I'd kick you to the curb for that type of controlling attitude without a reason. Right on!.. If you want to lose her keep it up kid.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 27, 2010 Author Share Posted July 27, 2010 I've told her I'm controlling. Sometimes I don't realize it. When I do? I let her know. She used to webcam with guys, and I made her stop. She didn't seem to mind. But now we're less happy, and I accredited it to that, so I told her if she wanted to she can go ahead and do it. That pissed her off even more. Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 I've told her I'm controlling. Sometimes I don't realize it. When I do? I let her know. She used to webcam with guys, and I made her stop. She didn't seem to mind. But now we're less happy, and I accredited it to that, so I told her if she wanted to she can go ahead and do it. That pissed her off even more. What you need to figure out is why shes doing that in the 1st place? the bickering back and forth is pointless get to the root of the prob.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 27, 2010 Author Share Posted July 27, 2010 What you need to figure out is why shes doing that in the 1st place? the bickering back and forth is pointless get to the root of the prob.. When she did webcam with guys (assuming she's not right now) she said she did it because she was bored. Anyways, going over to a friend's house, I'll reply to any responses a little later. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 I've told her I'm controlling. Sometimes I don't realize it. When I do? I let her know. Realizing you have a problem (here, controlling behavior) means nothing until you do something about the problem. Did it ever cross your mind that maybe she was putting on makeup to look good for YOU? Link to post Share on other sites
nemi26 Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 I don't wear make up in house, what a waste of time and money tbh.. but if shes going on cam thats alright, is she not on to you though as well? Link to post Share on other sites
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 28, 2010 Author Share Posted July 28, 2010 She wouldn't have put make up on for me since we didn't webcam... Link to post Share on other sites
sweetjasmine Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 She wouldn't have put make up on for me since we didn't webcam... How did you know that she was wearing it and that she did her hair, then? Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 Ha I barely wear makeup, I'm afraid of the consequences it will have on my skin for later on in life, plus it takes too long to put on. The last time I wore make up was on my boyfriend and I's last date night when I went to see him, and then I only had on lipgloss, eyeshadow, and mascara. Link to post Share on other sites
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 28, 2010 Author Share Posted July 28, 2010 How did you know that she was wearing it and that she did her hair, then? She TOLD me. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 I'm sorry, but from your posts (and especially the one about how you questioned her) you come across as very impulsive, childish, and immature. You really do. Take a deep breath and effing THINK. If someone was going to cheat on you, would she go and tell you 'Hey hon, I'm putting on makeup now... but I'm not leaving the house!! <3"?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 28, 2010 Author Share Posted July 28, 2010 I'm sorry, but from your posts (and especially the one about how you questioned her) you come across as very impulsive, childish, and immature. You really do. Take a deep breath and effing THINK. If someone was going to cheat on you, would she go and tell you 'Hey hon, I'm putting on makeup now... but I'm not leaving the house!! <3"?? Never disagreed with that. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetjasmine Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 She TOLD me. That's what I figured. Why do you think she told you? Do you think she would've mentioned it if she was doing it for other guys? You need to work out your jealousy and insecurity issues. You're tying yourself up into knots and getting mad at her for it. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 She TOLD me. Didn't you post like last week you couldn't get girls? Apart from one you didn't seem too entirely fond of you were no longer with...I take it this is her? Yeah. You are immature, jealous and you trust nobody. Why the hell are you in a LDR wasting her time? Link to post Share on other sites
Author OrdealByFire Posted July 28, 2010 Author Share Posted July 28, 2010 I'm not fond of? Am no longer with? What? As far as immature, jealous and trusting nobody, she's the same way. So I guess we'd both be wasting our time. Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 I'm not fond of? Am no longer with? What? As far as immature, jealous and trusting nobody, she's the same way. So I guess we'd both be wasting our time. I think CE is saying, you said you couldn't find someone and she's assuming that this girl you're complaining about is the one girl you could find, but you're no longer with her. And yes you need to get your jealousy and trust issues sorted out whether you stay with this girl or not because it's something that will hinder all your relationships well into the future if you don't get it in check. Link to post Share on other sites
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