jen_r Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 I am the dumpee, obviously. But from the dumpers point of view, when you dump your SO, what do you expect from them? Do you get angry when they beg to work things out? Do you get angry when they are just pleading with you to talk? Do you just want them to suck it up and disappear as quickly as they came into your life? Does anything they try to do to show you their love make a difference? I'm trying to understand what my ex is thinking and trying to understand his actions towards me.
Ilovecake Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 Hi Jen, I started a thread about the dumpers point of view and why you shouldn't contact them a while back. Here is the link, hope it helps. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t237323/
TLCbear Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 I am the dumpee, obviously. But from the dumpers point of view, when you dump your SO, what do you expect from them? Absolutely nothing...simply because I know before I even get to the step of leaving, I have tried to do all I can to make it work. But it doesn't just take my effort, it takes the other person's effort as well. The only thing I expect is for that person to move on, because it's no getting back together. I am a female, so my opinion may not help much, but just my 2 cents.
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