chooch Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 9 days NC. Feeling a lot happier with myself and being 'alone'. she rings... right now. I wait for the phone to stop vibrating. Put it on silent and place it in a drawer. You won't be calling to reconcile. So **** off...
Author chooch Posted July 27, 2010 Author Posted July 27, 2010 Good for you! **** off to all of them, NC rules Checked the phone - text as expected. "Hey. Just rang to talk about flat stuff" She forced me to move out when she finished with me, one month left on the flat now. Some of my stuff is still there and she said she'd pay me for the bills. But you know what? I'm not going to reply, and I'm not going to answer if she rings. Sod the possessions and the money. I need to stay NC for myself now, regardless of what material items I stand to lose. She may take some of them, others will be left. I'm sending my parents in at the end of the contract to pick up whatever's mine that's there. Not checking phone again. Will get bombarded with calls in next few days though
bonpaw2008 Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 NC for yourself is a beautiful thing, she doesn't deserve you, she doesn't deserve to speak to you, you are so doing the right thing. Maybe to stop the calls you can have someone else call her and tell her to do whatever she wants with your stuff?
Author chooch Posted July 27, 2010 Author Posted July 27, 2010 NC for yourself is a beautiful thing, she doesn't deserve you, she doesn't deserve to speak to you, you are so doing the right thing. Maybe to stop the calls you can have someone else call her and tell her to do whatever she wants with your stuff? Was planning on that. Know just the guy who will ring her for me as well. Tell her to leave everything that's mine there - the other weeks she was all 'I'll buy the ironing board off you'... the cheek. It's my fecking ironing board. lol!
bonpaw2008 Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 NC unfortunately means no negotiation, so I hope that you get back what you need )
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