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I am the dumpee and I'm going to break the 8 month NC

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Nothing will change my mind. however, I will not do it tonight... I don't think it's right @ 10:30PM est. I will do it tomorrow.

 

I'm actually happy I am finally going to.

 

It's been 8 months..... took me at least 6 of them to heal for the most part.

 

I actually miss this girl more than my recent ex who I'd only dated for 2 months... but we broke up about a month ago. you'd think it'd be the opposite.

 

 

the 8 month NC was for a 4.5 month relationship. heh

USMCHokie Established Member

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I will punch you...

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I will punch you...

 

 

No you won't :D

Treasa Established Member

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As long as you both keep posting to this thread so I can keep seeing hot avatars. :love:

 

So...since I can't change your mind, what do you plan on saying to her?

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As long as you both keep posting to this thread so I can keep seeing hot avatars. :love:

 

So...since I can't change your mind, what do you plan on saying to her?

 

 

heh...

 

 

I sent it.

 

""hi. it's Rob. Probably a bad idea to text you, especially this late, but I dunno... strange. Hope you're doing well. I don't expect any reply, but I thought about you the other day for the first time in awhile and I don't know why. Yeah.. be well."

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dude.. you just pulled the trigger on your healing..

 

You do very well expect a reply.. those are only sent with an expectation of a reply..

 

The very best.. no reply..

The very worst.. she replies with hi.. glad you are well

The other kind of reply won't happen..

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As long as you both keep posting to this thread so I can keep seeing hot avatars. :love:

 

No homo. :)

USMCHokie Established Member

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dude.. you just pulled the trigger on your healing..

 

You do very well expect a reply.. those are only sent with an expectation of a reply..

 

The very best.. no reply..

The very worst.. she replies with hi.. glad you are well

The other kind of reply won't happen..

 

I tried to stop him...well, I didn't try very hard...but he wouldn't have any of it... :mad:

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She probably got the text just as the guy she is banging was doing her..

 

beep..beep..beep... What is that...oh.. an old ex..

We only dated a few months and he texts me now looking to hook up...

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No homo. :)

 

Um, wha? Huh?

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I text no strings attached with no hopes or wants for reconciliation. I swear it.

 

I don't know. I felt I needed to do it after this long.

 

No regrets.

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Turn your eff'ng phone off dude..

 

Next you will text her again and the desperation will begin..

 

Do yourself a favor and save your self respect at this point and leave your phone off for the night..

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Turn your eff'ng phone off dude..

 

Next you will text her again and the desperation will begin..

 

Do yourself a favor and save your self respect at this point and leave your phone off for the night..

 

 

Done. :)

 

I have no regrets.

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What's your honest expectation of the outcome?

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Phone is off, for now. I need it for an alarm in the AM... so will turn it on before bed. heh

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Done. :)

 

I have no regrets.

 

Good........

USMCHokie Established Member

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Um, wha? Huh?

 

Sorry...I have found that I need to place disclaimers on practically everything now because I apparently have homoerotic tendencies... :rolleyes::laugh:

 

I can never be too safe... :p

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Sorry...I have found that I need to place disclaimers on practically everything now because I apparently have homoerotic tendencies... :rolleyes::laugh:

 

I can never be too safe... :p

 

 

If I were gay (and asexual).. I'd be all over myself :laugh:

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What's your honest expectation of the outcome?

 

BB is in denial. I yelled at him already off LS. Two weeks ago I broke 10 months of NC to send my ex a short birthday email. I insisted that I wasn't expecting a response and that I didn't care what happened afterwards.

 

Was a hoping for a response? You're damn right I was...but I wasn't going to admit it... And I got a response...and ended up exchanging about a dozen emails back and forth with her over the course of that day...played catch up over the past year...

 

Did it make me hope that there'd be continued contact after that? You're damn right it did...but I wasn't going to admit it... There were no more emails after that day...I'm not gonna lie, I was a little disappointed...but I got over it...

 

Was it a good idea? Hell no...but I did it...and I don't regret it...such is life...

 

So the bottom line: BB, whether you think it or not, you're full of sh*t...

 

xoxo,

Hokie. :)

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Hey, I don't care about your bromance or whatever. I'm a chick and just enjoy seeing hot men. :)

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Hey, I don't care about your bromance or whatever. I'm a chick and just enjoy seeing hot men. :)

 

Hahahah, well thanks, I really appreciate the kind words. :o

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In my experience, no one ever reach's out without having some sort of expectation for a response.

 

Are you sure you aren't just having a knee-jerk to reaction to your subsequent relationship not working out, so it's brought you back to pining for her?

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In my experience, no one ever reach's out without having some sort of expectation for a response.

 

Are you sure you aren't just having a knee-jerk to reaction to your subsequent relationship not working out, so it's brought you back to pining for her?

 

Agree. Completely.

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heh... got quite an interesting response. LOL

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heh... got quite an interesting response. LOL

 

Don't be a dick!:lmao: Post it!

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