SassyKitten Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 One observation I'm noticing with the fallout from this most recent breakup, that has gone for every breakup I've had, is that I have to resent the way I was betrayed in order to stop loving the person and function. This is kind of scaring me, as I know I need to not be thinking all men are asses when I try and put myself back on the market whenever I'm ready for that. Any other coping methods I can use besides resenting the ex?
agonizingoverthis Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 You don't have to hate all men. But I think it's normal for people to exaggerate the negative attributes of their ex when they're trying to create emotional distance. There are some great guys out there... eventually you'll find the one for you.
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