hitbyatruck Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 So........with an affair/rebound rel that is based upon sex first & foremost and all else second, when does the sex curb and what happens when it does? Is this point the transition from stage one to stage two of a relationship? I had stage one for 2 years (sex, sharing, learning) stage two for 6 (love, settling, understanding) and some sort of new-parent-induced limbo for the last 2 years (Stage 2.5?) Is stage three compromise & let down? Ex couldn't turn me on in the end, didn't make an effort. Different egos. Different self esteem. This **** really cut me up months ago but now I'm seeing it was probably meant to be.
lolapalooza Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 If it's a sex only R, then it never gets past that. Not sure I answered your question. But I'm not really sure what your question was.
Author hitbyatruck Posted July 27, 2010 Author Posted July 27, 2010 Not a "sex only" R but it was the catalyst. Everything else appears to be secondary.
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