Romantico Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 Hey: Ok, my girlfriend and I, have been going out for 5 months. Everything is great, except there is a minor problem; she is afraid o penises. I have fingered her a fet times and that is fine with her. But how can I make her overcome this fear and not think that i'm happy with not getting any... Thanks.
dyermaker Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 Communication. There's no legal way (at least in the united states) of MAKING her overcome her rejection of your genitalia.
dyermaker Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 He's sixteen. If she doesn't want sex, I'd consider her smart, not gay.
befuddled11 Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 Based on the age in your profile, she's likely around the same age...could even be younger. Who says she's "afraid" of your penis? Maybe she's just one of the man girls out there who was raised to believe, and sincerely DOES believe that sex isn't something you take lightly.....that maybe it's something you wait til marriage to have......maybe she's a smart girl and doesn't want to risk getting pregnant and screwing up her life (no form of birth control is 100% effective). If going without sex is a problem for you, then maybe she's not the girl for you?
Darkangelism Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 u guys are right, im wrong, wow, dyer i didnt know u were so young, u act a lot older
Tony T Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 "u guys are right, im wrong, wow, dyer i didnt know u were so young, u act a lot older" We're talking about Romantico here, not dyer (although dyper does purport to be very young as well)!
dyermaker Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 Originally posted by Tony Reading comprehension classes begin at 9 a.m. at the Water Cooler. lol, shuddup
SoleMate Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 You can't. You can always talk to her, and ask, "Are you afraid of my penis?" She may say, "Yes, I took Sex Ed, and learned about pregnancy and STDs, plus the emotional consequences of sex. And I know I'm not ready to touch anybody's penis. Come to think of it, don't put your hand down my pants anymore either." If your penis needs touching so badly, go ahead and touch it yourself. You're not afraid of it, are you?
UCFKevin Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 You could always lumber towards her, naked, groaning like Frankenstein. But that probably wouldn't help things. You guys are young. Just chill. What's the rush?
monkey00 Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 wtf? phobias of penises... man there's a first time i heard that...first time for everything i assume she's still a virgin. ask her if she plans on staying a virgin forever...that might help give her the heave ho to get banged....or motivation at least how old is she?
niko1999 Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 She may have had a prior experience that made her not want to have a penis near her. And if she is young, there is no need to rush one in her face(no pun intended). It may not even be a phobia, it may be a dislike, I HATED them, until I started seeing the guy I am currently with, and even that took a good 6 months for me to become comfortable with it. And Im 23 yrs old. So dont rush her, she probably just isnt ready, or she just deosnt like them, they are ugly things. And DONT ask her if she plans on being a virgin forever, that is just rude. And if you want her to not like you, and think youre an as$, go ahead and throw taht in her face.
tattoomytoe Posted February 10, 2004 Posted February 10, 2004 i really like to play soldier with my bf's dingy, the little helmet, it is soo cute! just try to have fun with it.....look into watching puppetry of the penis! very funny!!!!
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