whatisgoingon Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 I have been N/c for believe it or not since Oct. 2009. Met a very nice guy who I have been dating since then. Why do I still think about my MM? He has drove by my house on several occasions and in Feb my bf and I got into a fight he went home, MM called asked if he could come over took all I had to say no but I did. Have not heard from him since, about a month ago he did a midnight drive by, my bf heard his truck stop outside house. Now here it is July and he was out asking my friends if I was happy and looking for me, my bf knows all about him I was very honest with him from the get go, so now he says he is on the prowl again looking for me. Why does he keep it up what do I got to do to get him out of my head and me out of his???
pureinheart Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 I have been N/c for believe it or not since Oct. 2009. Met a very nice guy who I have been dating since then. Why do I still think about my MM? He has drove by my house on several occasions and in Feb my bf and I got into a fight he went home, MM called asked if he could come over took all I had to say no but I did. Have not heard from him since, about a month ago he did a midnight drive by, my bf heard his truck stop outside house. Now here it is July and he was out asking my friends if I was happy and looking for me, my bf knows all about him I was very honest with him from the get go, so now he says he is on the prowl again looking for me. Why does he keep it up what do I got to do to get him out of my head and me out of his??? Not really sure, and don't have anything profound to say...I feel led to say to stick with the nice BF and live your life...MM is "checking" to see if there is an open door or if you have changed your mind...it really doesn't sound like the type of thing like "I can't live without you and miss you so much"... Hey, hang in there...the BF sounds like a keeper:D
Owl Posted July 26, 2010 Posted July 26, 2010 Well, clearly MM didn't get (or refused to accept) that the affair is ENDED, once and for all. I'd suggest this...break NC this one time. But, do it right. Send him an email/txt that is clearly from BOTH YOU AND YOUR BF...telling him point blank that the affair is over, you have moved on...and that any further attempts at contact will be communicated to his WIFE without delay. Be harsh. Be rude. Draw a line in the sand that cannot be mistaken. And make it clear that you've got "backup" in this from your BF.
Author whatisgoingon Posted July 27, 2010 Author Posted July 27, 2010 Funny how things happen, Fri nite he is questioning people about me, Mon nite he is hanging all over his wife.....What a loser!!!!
Author whatisgoingon Posted July 27, 2010 Author Posted July 27, 2010 Not really sure, and don't have anything profound to say...I feel led to say to stick with the nice BF and live your life...MM is "checking" to see if there is an open door or if you have changed your mind...it really doesn't sound like the type of thing like "I can't live without you and miss you so much"... Hey, hang in there...the BF sounds like a keeper:D Keeper he is, Thank you!!
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