Pyro Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Next time I am New York I will take pics with my phone. I wait in great anticipation for that one......assuming you don't put post its on there yourself to try and prove your point.
Author Woggle Posted July 25, 2010 Author Posted July 25, 2010 I agree! LOL. In fact, I enjoy when men defeat my cynical viewpoints of them. Sometimes I feel like all men just want sex and they don't want to be emotionally involved in relationships at all and that all they care about is looks because that's my cynical viewpoint, but I find men who aren't that way, luckily, and it makes me feel better. Despite popular view most men want a healthy, commited emotional relationship but when we realize how difficult that is to acheive with most modern women we settle for the next best thing.
Star Gazer Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 On those women, yeah. FWIW, for me, an overly expensive car is a huge turn-off. (The men who own them are usually obsessed with image and like attracts like. . . they get those kind of gals.) I just got back from getting a sandwich at this little place, and parked outside was a Mazerati with a license plate frame that said, "My other vehicle is a JET!" with a little picture of a jet. I literally said outloud," What a jackass." Guy was coming out of the shop next door when I said that. Nice cars are really lost on me when it comes to dating. But admittedly, sh*tty cars turn me off. If it's clean, practical, fits the person's lifestyle and budget...that will turn me on more than some fancy wheels anyway.
SassyKitten Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 I'm calling bulls*** on that one. Why is it that when a woman suddenly starts making more money, or becomes successful... her BF or Husband suddenly gets dumped for a richer more powerful guy. Jennifer Hudson is a perfect example. Some success and suddenly her janitor BF gets insta dumped. The kicker is she blames it on him.... Says he couldn't handle her success. Wow, another sweeping beneralisation, nice. Should I start saying now that all men want an airheaded cheerleader who invites her best friend over for threesomes regularly? Personally, I have no problem with the idea of my partner making less money than me. If he's insecure with this, however, that would definitely create problems in our relationship. This is a common problem, but I know better than to put all men in this category!
Pyro Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Wow, another sweeping beneralisation, nice. Should I start saying now that all men want an airheaded cheerleader who invites her best friend over for threesomes regularly? Personally, I have no problem with the idea of my partner making less money than me. If he's insecure with this, however, that would definitely create problems in our relationship. This is a common problem, but I know better than to put all men in this category! get use to it. Plenty of individuals on here make sweeping generalizations about an entire gender and then wonder why they can't get a date.
Author Woggle Posted July 25, 2010 Author Posted July 25, 2010 I saw this on another forum. http://www.jautomotor.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/mercedes_slr_mclaren_722_image003.jpg
SassyKitten Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Despite popular view most men want a healthy, commited emotional relationship but when we realize how difficult that is to acheive with most modern women we settle for the next best thing. It's really not that difficult if you're secure with yourself and don't feel the need to take on any of the traditional male gender roles.
SassyKitten Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 get use to it. Plenty of individuals on here make sweeping generalizations about an entire gender and then wonder why they can't get a date. Touche!!!!!
Pyro Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 I saw this on another forum. http://www.jautomotor.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/mercedes_slr_mclaren_722_image003.jpg People get parking tickets on a daily basis. What is your point?
Author Woggle Posted July 25, 2010 Author Posted July 25, 2010 get use to it. Plenty of individuals on here make sweeping generalizations about an entire gender and then wonder why they can't get a date. But it's true. When I made all that money in the stock market that is when my ex and seemingly every woman I ever went on a date with wanted me. I was finally allowed inside my ex mother in law's house as well.
allina Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 parked outside was a Mazerati with a license plate frame that said, "My other vehicle is a JET!" I like Maseratis, and jets I'm not going to pretend like a guy owning those isn't a huge plus. Sorry PC police
Pyro Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 But it's true. When I made all that money in the stock market that is when my ex and seemingly every woman I ever went on a date with wanted me. I was finally allowed inside my ex mother in law's house as well. You have lost all credibility on here. You never present any real evidence to back up your sweeping generalizations. Yes we are all aware that gold diggers exist who want nothing more than your money.
SassyKitten Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 But it's true. When I made all that money in the stock market that is when my ex and seemingly every woman I ever went on a date with wanted me. I was finally allowed inside my ex mother in law's house as well. Yeah, "seemingly". And all men are after just one thing, right?
anne1707 Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 I saw this on another forum. http://www.jautomotor.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/mercedes_slr_mclaren_722_image003.jpg Now let me see. What does that look like to me? Oh yes, I know: http://www.transblawg.eu/uploads/trivia/20070930leigh004w.jpg
You'reasian Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 There is a huge difference between what women say and what women do so the last person a man should ask for advice on women is women. Also men who have dating experience start to learn what does and does not work. No offense ladies, but he's spot on. On the rare occasion that there is a mutual, powerful chemistry between a man and a woman upon their first few meetings, the woman will usually drop her 'dating' behaviors if she is amazed.
SassyKitten Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 On the rare occasion that there is a mutual' date=' powerful chemistry between a man and a woman upon their first few meetings, the woman will usually drop her 'dating' behaviors if she is amazed.[/quote'] Same can be said about men. A huge challenge with relationships is finding someone who hasn't turned into a completely different person after 3 months than they were when you first met them.
Untouchable_Fire Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Wow, another sweeping beneralisation, nice. Should I start saying now that all men want an airheaded cheerleader who invites her best friend over for threesomes regularly? Personally, I have no problem with the idea of my partner making less money than me. If he's insecure with this, however, that would definitely create problems in our relationship. This is a common problem, but I know better than to put all men in this category! Does your current partner make more or less than you? Go read the thread by SpanksTheMonkey about her man not making enough money. Guh... 9/10 women said dump him.
You'reasian Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 (edited) Same can be said about men. A huge challenge with relationships is finding someone who hasn't turned into a completely different person after 3 months than they were when you first met them. People don't change after 3 months; they discover each other and certain things illicit reactions from each other. For instance, if a woman I am with doesn't reciprocate or doesn't want to keep up our communication that early, its probably not going to be long term. If I'm dating a woman whose a horny drunk and ends up crashing at a party over the weekend with other male horny drunks, its an indication she's not into long term relationships. Its not my job to change anyone lol She's gotta have her fun. Edited July 25, 2010 by You'reasian
SassyKitten Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Currently I don't have a partner. Right now, I am a student, and I haven't dated any fellow students (I'm 28, making me a bit older than most students), so all of my partners have made the same or more than me. Looking back, I did have one ex who was a lawyer and making 6 figures, all of the others at the most have pulled in about $1000/week. This is not why I was attracted him. And actually one of the big things that drove us apart was that he was under the impression that he had the license to act like a complete douche just because he was making all of that money.
You'reasian Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Currently I don't have a partner. Right now, I am a student, and I haven't dated any fellow students (I'm 28, making me a bit older than most students), so all of my partners have made the same or more than me. Looking back, I did have one ex who was a lawyer and making 6 figures, all of the others at the most have pulled in about $1000/week. This is not why I was attracted him. And actually one of the big things that drove us apart was that he was under the impression that he had the license to act like a complete douche just because he was making all of that money. Experience is a good teacher. Seeing as you were younger, the 6 figures probably didn't hurt your attraction to him...
SassyKitten Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Experience is a good teacher. Seeing as you were younger' date=' the 6 figures probably didn't hurt your attraction to him...[/quote'] This was less than a year ago, and no, it's not why I was attracted to him. Sheesh, being with a man for his money is like being a hooker without a day off, ever!
Author Woggle Posted July 25, 2010 Author Posted July 25, 2010 Yeah, "seemingly". And all men are after just one thing, right? I never said all women. I said the women I dated. I usd to be thought of as a loser who would amount to nothing in life. When I proved everybody wrong the women that used to reject all of a sudden changed their tune.
SassyKitten Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 Well, I can completely understand how that can affect your view of women in general. I have to work hard all of the time to fight the generalisation that all men care about is their dick and not the woman they're putting it in.
Star Gazer Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 I like Maseratis, and jets I'm not going to pretend like a guy owning those isn't a huge plus. Sorry PC police Having a license plate frame to ADVERTISE that though? C'mon...
You'reasian Posted July 25, 2010 Posted July 25, 2010 (edited) Well, I can completely understand how that can affect your view of women in general. I have to work hard all of the time to fight the generalisation that all men care about is their dick and not the woman they're putting it in. I like how you spell words with an s rather than a z - that's very much European, so you'll be ready in that aspect I suppose... There's nothing wrong with guys or gals going out to have fun now and then...but as far as men caring about their d!ck more than the woman its being put in, a woman has to present herself (and know without a doubt - through her direct actions and behavior) that she is a woman worth caring about. Why? We attract what we do. A woman's behaviors and actions will eventually attract a guy who will want to care of her. If she's an in my face, alpha kind of woman, I'll get the impression that she can take care of herself, doesn't need a man and I can leave her alone. There's a huge personality difference between an in my face, alpha kind of woman and a bad @ss woman. Edited July 25, 2010 by You'reasian
Recommended Posts