Strange Break up..would love to have her back..your thoughts?

[primerpimp]

Hello, I am new to the forum and after spending countless hours soul searching and reading other peoples relationship heartbreaks and hardships; I've decided to post myself and would love to hear your thoughts on my break up and if there will ever be a chance I can get back with my ex gf. I am 25 and she is 20. We were together for 2 1/2 years and recently broke up in June. We knew each other for about two years before we got together, I was in love with her since the first time I saw her. Our relationship was great at first and towards the end it changed. I know she was completely in love with me and as much as I was with her I will admit I did not quite show it as well as she did and sometimes I could be a little harsh with her when speaking. She is an amazing person and the best woman I have ever met and then all of a sudden things changed. It all started in May. I knew things were getting kind of rocky (mostly from her being bored I believe) and knew we needed to talk about our relationship. She was the first one to bring it up that we needed to talk and I agreed. However, after that she wouldn't talk about it. Throughout May I kept bringing it up that we still needed to talk and every time I did she would just come up with some sort of excuse and be like "I'm tired I have to get up for work early, we will talk about it tomorrow" but we never ended up talking about it. A few days before the last day of May she was heading out for a 2 week vacation with her family and family friend. I asked her to talk about it the night before she left and she still put it off. When she left for vacation she gave me a hug and started crying and I figured it was just because she was going to miss me. She left for vacation and we talked the whole time she was gone, we told each other we loved and missed each other and things seemed fine. They returned on flight on a Sunday and would had a two day drive back home. When she got to her air port late at night that Sunday she called me and I missed the call . I didn't hear from her after that. She was suppose to return home that Tuesday and I still didn't hear from her, no reply to my texts, no answering my calls nothing. I ended up getting a hold of her sister and her asked if she had made it back yet and her sister said yes she had been back for a couple of days. I sent her more texts and was wondering what the deal was. Then her friend ended up emailing me telling me not to contact her because she was over me! If this was the case, I couldn't believe she had to have her friend tell me. Finally she ended up answering the phone her self. She was bawling and said that things have changed and she is so confused and doesn't know what to do and she just needs some time to think, the way she sounded seemed like she was totally confused and didn't want to do it. I will admit I emotionally broke down and tried to explain things and keep her and this probably drove her further away. Again this was two or three days after we had talked while she was gone saying we love each other. We talked briefly a few days after the convo where she told me she was confused. I tried calling her a few days later only to find out she changed her phone number and blocked me on FB. A few days later I sent her a long email confessing my love for her and all that (which again probably drove her away more). Come to find out the day she changed her number she started talking with a friend of her families son whom lives a state away! A few weeks later they started dating and a few weeks after that they were in a "relationship" Again this guy lives a state over...well they have only been in a "relationship" for about 3 weeks now and it seems like they are totally happy. I found out that she is actually moving there soon to live with him! She lives about 5 minutes away from me and would much rather be with this guy who lives further away than to work things out with me? Can anyone give their thoughts on this situation? I am so freaking lost and confused from everything because it all has happened so fast. Anyone with a similar experience? I would love to hear your thoughts. I would love to have her back in my life and try to make our relationship great again. I love her with all of my heart and I believe she is the one. (I may also add the new guy is very very well off...if that has anything to do with it lol)

[cbonilla1987]

Hey man I feel you on this my ex-girlfriend told me that she didn't love me anymore, and that she wanted to be free like I kept her in a prison the whole time we were together. But I know this, only time can heal these wounds, and make her see what she left behind. Plus she is just 20 and might not realize how much better you are than everyone else. If not then you'll meet someone better that appreciates you for who you are, and will never want to lose you.