HeldbyGravity Posted July 24, 2010 Posted July 24, 2010 I was patient when it came to cuddling with him, and for our first kiss. He's a shy gentleman, and I'd never break up with him for this. I'm not sure if he thinks he can't do it, or doesn't want to. A little history- during our first kiss, it was my birthday, and he'd given me a great day out. He was dropping me off and we hugged like usual, and then I just went in for his cheek and he thought that I was aiming somewhere else- he turned his head to turn it into a quick peck that left me dizzy. He has progressed on every other physical aspect of our relationship, with me testing the waters and initiating some along the way, while leaving him enough so that he's not uncomfortable. What are some things I can do to make the kisses progress, so that we kiss longer? Should I just wait for him, or kiss him slowly on the cheek, see if he turns his head and then go in or wait for him? (he does give me these gazes sometimes, and I wonder if he's trying XD) Is he just waiting for me to show I'm okay with it? Any guys actually not like kissing, or think what we're doing is enough? He's my first boyfriend, and he still holds doors open for me, tells me he loves me and we cuddle. We're young- I'm not looking for sex. He's in his senior year of high school, I'm a freshman in college.
Enchanted Girl Posted July 24, 2010 Posted July 24, 2010 So are you having sex with him or not? I am confused. If not, did you talk about his morals in this area? There are some people out there who don't believe in kissing before marriage. I've met them before, both men and women. And yes, some men just don't like kissing. Honestly, I'm a woman who doesn't need a lot of kissing. The other stuff is more important to me: the cuddling and sex. Between cuddling, sex, and kissing, I think we all have a favorite one and a least favorite one among the three.
Author HeldbyGravity Posted July 24, 2010 Author Posted July 24, 2010 (edited) So are you having sex with him or not? I am confused. If not, did you talk about his morals in this area? There are some people out there who don't believe in kissing before marriage. I've met them before, both men and women. And yes, some men just don't like kissing. Honestly, I'm a woman who doesn't need a lot of kissing. The other stuff is more important to me: the cuddling and sex. No, we're not having sex. I actually don't know his stance on kissing, but I don't see him as the type to be against it. I'm the more religious one in the relationship, and he actually didn't know the extent of it til a few weeks ago, but I'm not against kissing before marriage. He just learned that though, I don't religion plays a role. I feel like I should ask him about the kissing thing... but I don't know, ha. Edited July 24, 2010 by HeldbyGravity
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