johnnyV Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 What would be some reasons for a year and a half relationship the person who broke up with the other did it over the phone?
Pyro Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 the fear of looking you in the face and telling you. Is it possible that the person whom you are referring to cheated?
Pyro Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 Its easier for many to do something without having to face the person. Not saying it's right because it's not. Very cowardly.
Author johnnyV Posted July 23, 2010 Author Posted July 23, 2010 She moved an hour away hadn't seen her since, didn't contact me much for the first two weeks then said that I cant come visit her when I asked. She used to live 4 houses down and said she had been home a lot and it was real hard for her not to come see me. Then about a month of vagueness and me questioning what was going on she just said it was over. Couldn't have set up a time to come by and sit down with me for a half hour or whatever and tell me it is over....
Thorgs Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 I feel for you...my 2 serious relationships...they both broke up with me over the phone. Very cowardly as Pyro stated.
Pyro Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 Like I said it was easier for her to end things that way versus seeing you in person.
AlwaysConflicted Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 Any girl who breaks up with you over the phone is clearly not a keeper. It shows an incredible lack of compassion and is completely disrespectful.
Author johnnyV Posted July 23, 2010 Author Posted July 23, 2010 Always, That is what baffles me about the whole thing. She isn't the type of girl to do something like this. Throughout the relationship she was always about resolving things before leaving, not hanging up one each other and other things. She is the type of girl to do things the right way with tons of respect. It is weird....
Thorgs Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 Always, That is what baffles me about the whole thing. She isn't the type of girl to do something like this. Throughout the relationship she was always about resolving things before leaving, not hanging up one each other and other things. She is the type of girl to do things the right way with tons of respect. It is weird.... My last ex was the same. Had a great head on her shoulders and always to the point. When she did this I was shocked/blindsided. Then she made me promise to keep in touch and talk to her day or night if I needed her. I didn't promise. I should have said, ok, I need you day and night for the rest of our lives.... Live and learn my friend.
AlwaysConflicted Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 Maybe so, but she broke up with you on the phone. She showed her true colors at the end. Some girls break up over the phone because they're afraid to look into your eyes. It's a lot easier for a guy to convince the woman for a 2nd chance in person...you can stare into their eyes, kiss them, touch their hair. It confuses them and sometimes they cave into a second chance due to pity or just pure confusion. Ultimately the relationship breaks apart weeks later if not days.
Author johnnyV Posted July 23, 2010 Author Posted July 23, 2010 Ya Thorgs, Mine said same to me "I thought we were gonna be able to be friends" after I tried for a second chance...and before that said "I am here for you if you ever need to talk about anything" "I care about you very much"....big whoop...
Thorgs Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 Ya Thorgs, Mine said same to me "I thought we were gonna be able to be friends" after I tried for a second chance...and before that said "I am here for you if you ever need to talk about anything" "I care about you very much"....big whoop... Yeah, if they cared so much, then why did they cut us loose? I'm still having a hard time with my break...life definitely sucks right now.
Author johnnyV Posted July 23, 2010 Author Posted July 23, 2010 Ya its been like 3 and a half months now and I still wonder why she did it the way she did... Dragged out for like the month of april never giving me any closure till sometime in May. Made it hurt that much worse and make it much harder to get over...feel ya man.
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