whoisthisguy Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 Hey everybody ! So let me tell you my story. I dated a girl for 26 months and lived togather with him for 10 months. She broke up with me 5 weeks ago. I still love her and i want him back. When she broke up with me she told me that she still loves me but its just not working at the moment, and its hurting him so much he cant take it anymore. To be honest i know she didn't lied, i know she loves me, out relaitionship was really serious, and i cant tell it since she did everything for me, even abandoned her friends that i didn't liked. I know she broke up with me becoz in the last 2-3-4 months i was kinda scared, and i didn't know what i want from this relaitionship at that time, and i started to dont give as much effort as she did. She even saw that and at one point she asked me to lets take a little pause so i can decide what i want. Now we are borken up for 5 weeks, and talked only once. That time she told me to do not try to call him for a time, she needs space. I did this and didnt called him. A week ago i tried to call her but she didnt picked up the phone. After that i went to see a movei with my friends yesterday and saw him with a guy :S. I'm kinda dont know whats going on now. I know him very well and i know that she cant be over me already, maybe its just a rebound? HELP ME GUYS!
ngo_ng Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 so many people are living the same story... I'm curious to find out the rest of the story as I am in NC because I respect her decision to love someone else. I still deeply love her though...I know I have to keep NC and move on but something tells me that all the pieces of information don't add up. Rebound or not rebound it hurts and I feel for you buddy. Just go see friends and go out to forget things. That's what I'm doing, and it works great...except when I go back home and am alone...that's when it all kicks in. Have courage!
Author whoisthisguy Posted July 23, 2010 Author Posted July 23, 2010 (edited) so many people are living the same story... I'm curious to find out the rest of the story as I am in NC because I respect her decision to love someone else. I still deeply love her though...I know I have to keep NC and move on but something tells me that all the pieces of information don't add up. Rebound or not rebound it hurts and I feel for you buddy. Just go see friends and go out to forget things. That's what I'm doing, and it works great...except when I go back home and am alone...that's when it all kicks in. Have courage! I forgot te tell i sent him a mail telling him, that i understand why she broke up with me, and im sorry for how behavied in the last 2-3 months. Now i understand why she wanted to make some pause. And last i told her i know we need time to be able to talk again. The thing at the moment is that i dont know NC is good for me 1 . since she told me first that he needs time to forgot me and the pain i coused. 2. she broke up with me coz i didn't cared for her in the last few months, and what if she got the feeling now that i still dont care since i dont contact her at all. But if i think about it right now i cant even contact her since she dont picks up the phone She is really desperate to forgot me i think. by the way NC is a possible way to get him back? or what should i do instead? Edited July 23, 2010 by whoisthisguy
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