cdt76 Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 I introduced myself to a girl a month ago. Called her and made a date to meet for lunch. She never called back to let me know where to meet her or what time. She finally texted a message saying meet her for coffee on Wednesday of this week. Nothing. Haven't heard from her since. She has kids and a crazy schedule. I'm assuming I'm just not important enough to meet in her mind. I've been told to drop her like a bad habit but I know I'm attracted to her and she would like me. Just sucks and I don't want to give up on meeting this girl. I should though right?
YellowShark Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 If she has a high interest level she would make definite concrete plans to meet with you. Since she hasn't replied, I would say she isn't interested. It only takes 1 minute to fire off a text so a "crazy schedule" is simply a rationalization. Leave the ball in her court for now, stand down, and go about your daily life.
This Hurts Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 You should drop her. There's no better feeling than to show interest in someone and have them show the same amount back. She's not giving you that, and that's what you deserve. Her loss.
GrayClouds Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 I introduced myself to a girl a month ago. Called her and made a date to meet for lunch. She never called back to let me know where to meet her or what time. She finally texted a message saying meet her for coffee on Wednesday of this week. Nothing. Haven't heard from her since. She has kids and a crazy schedule. I'm assuming I'm just not important enough to meet in her mind. I've been told to drop her like a bad habit but I know I'm attracted to her and she would like me. Just sucks and I don't want to give up on meeting this girl. I should though right? She has already trained you to put up with crap, even if you get together this experience will be relationship. I thinking this is not what you would want?
Author cdt76 Posted July 23, 2010 Author Posted July 23, 2010 SO TRUE!!!!!!!! Wow. Didn't even think of that. She's done. Thank you all for your input.
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