mickleb Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 How about a) 'I could use some help, please', b) 'Need a little attention - wound sore today', c) 'Got an important question I need to ask and would like some answers', d) 'Eureka moment! Tell me if I'm as clever as this feels?' e) 'Feeling blue, am I as alone as I think?' f) 'These are my thoughts: Are they normal or am I completely mental?' or g) 'Yes, I know I could use the journal facility but I'll definitely get more hits/advice/recognition if I call this My Coping Log'? There's no shame, here, in asking for what you need - a little more congruence is what we could all take from a broken relationship, I.M.(not so today by the looks!)H.O. Ach! You guys!! x P.S. The category for the above is a little c) mixed with some f).
smk Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 How about a) 'I could use some help, please', b) 'Need a little attention - wound sore today', c) 'Got an important question I need to ask and would like some answers', d) 'Eureka moment! Tell me if I'm as clever as this feels?' e) 'Feeling blue, am I as alone as I think?' f) 'These are my thoughts: Are they normal or am I completely mental?' or g) 'Yes, I know I could use the journal facility but I'll definitely get more hits/advice/recognition if I call this My Coping Log'? There's no shame, here, in asking for what you need - a little more congruence is what we could all take from a broken relationship, I.M.(not so today by the looks!)H.O. Ach! You guys!! x P.S. The category for the above is a little c) mixed with some f). what is your C and what are your F's..... can we add G) all of the above, h) i felt great this morning and the day has spiralled downwards now and i just want to vent ?? life is simple - we (or in our case our ex's) complicate it - confucious....
Author mickleb Posted July 23, 2010 Author Posted July 23, 2010 what is your C and what are your F's..... can we add h) all of the above, i) i felt great this morning and the day has spiralled downwards now and i just want to vent ?? life is simple - we (or in our case our ex's) complicate it - confucious.... My c) is d) and my f's) are h). So, yes to h) and no to i). Be a big 'I', not a little one and admit it's more likey to be a b) or perhaps a j) 'Bored at work and have commitment issues with my job, should be posting in a different forum'. Or post the whole thing in the Rants forum and accept you might not get your needs met there, as hardly anyone will read it! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/f45/ x
smk Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 k) bored at work - its a friday afternoon - almost deserted office - sun shining outside whilst i am stuck at desk by the window - have way too much time on my hands.... i think that works
Author mickleb Posted July 23, 2010 Author Posted July 23, 2010 k) bored at work - its a friday afternoon - almost deserted office - sun shining outside whilst i am stuck at desk by the window - have way too much time on my hands.... i think that works That's j) with a bit of e) or f), depending on whether you've reached the Depression or Anger stage, I reckon.. But I hear ya! x
smk Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 That's j) with a bit of e) or f), depending on whether you've reached the Depression or Anger stage, I reckon.. But I hear ya! x i have very little of the anger remaining but lots of the depression.... where does that put me - i was having such a great day and i had to go and F*** it up by going onto FB.....
AlwaysConflicted Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 I don't have much anger either. I just miss my ex and I am confused as to why she fell out of love.
smk Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 I don't have much anger either. I just miss my ex and I am confused as to why she fell out of love. yeah i know the feeling.... its as if one morning they woke and thought to themselves "hmmm - i dont think i love you anymore - or youre not worth the fight" or (insert any reason)...
GrayClouds Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 I love a good rant specially when they contain alphabetic component to help the reader. And I must say, I too am not a big liker of e' ol' log, it hard to be helpful, often to much to read (ok ok I got a bit ADD), and they generally seem to encourage wallowing rather then looking for help with healing.
hopesndreams Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 d) 'Eureka moment! Tell me if I'm as clever as this feels?' I love a good D.
Author mickleb Posted July 27, 2010 Author Posted July 27, 2010 smk and Always: you've definitely got a bad case of e). I wish you Godspeed in getting to Anger. It don't 'alf 'elp. GC: I get tempted to start my own Coping Log to deal with all the Coping Logs but must resist the allure of the darkness.. McGrupp: was it that obvious? I was, actually, putting off clearing my desk - yes! School's out for summer! So, there was deffo a touch of j) going on there.. Oh, sod it, if I count the pup as my 'wound', it was more like a case of h), except I didn't have a great morning that day, so minus i).. My head hurts. hopes: fkn A! x
smk Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 at this moment i am going through a little bit of a d.e.a.f - finally leading to a L - i just cant be f****d to deal with the mad emotions today so am gonna just zone out and watch the crappest junk on tv.... hehehehehe
hopesndreams Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 at this moment i am going through a little bit of a d.e.a.f - finally leading to a L - i just cant be f****d to deal with the mad emotions today so am gonna just zone out and watch the crappest junk on tv.... hehehehehe Download a good movie instead.
smk Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 Download a good movie instead. any suggestions??? I contemplated watching seven pounds... started it last night and didnt finish it...
hopesndreams Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 any suggestions??? I contemplated watching seven pounds... started it last night and didnt finish it... The Book of Eli. An apocalyptic tale. I cried at the end. Legion is good too.
smk Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 The Book of Eli. An apocalyptic tale. I cried at the end. Legion is good too. they have been put to download as we speak....
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