LuisR Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 Guys! I've been involved for the last 2 years in an on-and-off relationship with this woman in her early 40's. Our relationship has always been on shaky grounds as a result that the woman came out from a bitter divorce from her ex as of 6 years ago. She was married for nearly 13 years, and has a kid from this matrimony. I always felt that the woman was using me as rebound, but what kept me from going back to her was the great sex. However, the story goes beyond the imagination. When we 1st met, she told me that her ex was this horrendous adulterous who had multiple partners. She went on to say to me that she has always been this ideal loyal wife who did the cooking and took care of the kids. All throughout this conversation she displayed a deep hatred for the man, as if she really wanted to kill him. As result of his cheating, they decided to split up with a divorce. This is what she said to me 2 years ago. However, very recently I discovered that the woman has lied to me. While having a drink with her in a comfy restaurant, she finally unveiled the real story, and this story gets very ugly to bare. In an open confession, she finally confessed to me that her husband was NOT the cheater, and that in fact the cheating started with her. This is what she finally told me in the open confession: "I had an affair with the next door neighbor who lived across from my house...I went across the street and had sex with the neighbor...His penis was so huge that my husband couldn't match this one..." From that day on, it was NOT worth it to have sex with my husband anymore, as she explained to me through the confession. The neighbor's penis, who I had sex with, was so great that my husband couldn't match what he had. As a result of this betrayal, the husband decided to cheat on her in order to get even with the wife. Now it appears that the woman has now ditched me for another guy. I have to admit that this women is pretty messed-up. She is extremely bitter and mad at the world since the day she split up from the ex. She refuses to admit guilt that she's responsible for the split of her marriage. Always blames the ex for all her problems. Guys I need help. What the hell all this suppose to mean.
Odyssey Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 I've been involved for the last 2 years in an on-and-off relationship with this womanRed flag no.1 the woman has lied to me.Red flag no.2 She refuses to admit guilt that she's responsible for the split of her marriage. Always blames the ex for all her problems.Red flag no.3 Now it appears that the woman has now ditched me for another guy.More than likely, judging from her past history. Dude use ya head (the one above not below) for once! This chick isn't worth it!
Author LuisR Posted July 23, 2010 Author Posted July 23, 2010 (edited) How exactly were you scammed?She scammed me because she told me a pack of lies right from the start, and then she decided to come clean. She villainized her ex husband by making him look as he was the sinner, the adulterous, etc... And now turns out that she was the cheater all this time. And still blames the ex for all her problems of her bull $hitting life. She was the one who destroyed her own mariage, as she confessed her infidelities by having sex with the neighbor next door. Furthermore, she always said to me that I was a swell guy, but now it turns out that she ditched me for another guy. I became the rebound boy. Edited July 23, 2010 by LuisR
seibert253 Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 Guys! I've been involved for the last 2 years in an on-and-off relationship with this woman in her early 40's. Our relationship has always been on shaky grounds as a result that the woman came out from a bitter divorce from her ex as of 6 years ago. She was married for nearly 13 years, and has a kid from this matrimony. I always felt that the woman was using me as rebound, but what kept me from going back to her was the great sex. However, the story goes beyond the imagination. When we 1st met, she told me that her ex was this horrendous adulterous who had multiple partners. She went on to say to me that she has always been this ideal loyal wife who did the cooking and took care of the kids. All throughout this conversation she displayed a deep hatred for the man, as if she really wanted to kill him. As result of his cheating, they decided to split up with a divorce. This is what she said to me 2 years ago. However, very recently I discovered that the woman has lied to me. While having a drink with her in a comfy restaurant, she finally unveiled the real story, and this story gets very ugly to bare. In an open confession, she finally confessed to me that her husband was NOT the cheater, and that in fact the cheating started with her. This is what she finally told me in the open confession: "I had an affair with the next door neighbor who lived across from my house...I went across the street and had sex with the neighbor...His penis was so huge that my husband couldn't match this one..." From that day on, it was NOT worth it to have sex with my husband anymore, as she explained to me through the confession. The neighbor's penis, who I had sex with, was so great that my husband couldn't match what he had. As a result of this betrayal, the husband decided to cheat on her in order to get even with the wife. Now it appears that the woman has now ditched me for another guy. I have to admit that this women is pretty messed-up. She is extremely bitter and mad at the world since the day she split up from the ex. She refuses to admit guilt that she's responsible for the split of her marriage. Always blames the ex for all her problems. Guys I need help. What the hell all this suppose to mean. All this means is that God is watching over you. He's attempting to save you from much heartache and misery. Problem is I'm not sure you see this. If you THINK she's dumped you, then consider yourself dumped and move on. She may try to return. IMO if she does, you need to stay gone.
Woggle Posted July 23, 2010 Posted July 23, 2010 Run and don't look back. Women like this can bring nothing good in your life.
Author LuisR Posted July 23, 2010 Author Posted July 23, 2010 I want to thanx everyone on this board for the great advice.
Jilly Bean Posted July 24, 2010 Posted July 24, 2010 She didn't "scam" you. lol But, I hate to say it, she probably threw you over because she found a bigger penis. Seems to be her MO, right? And I mean this as a slam to her, not your penis. You need to take responsibility here, however. You said you stayed with her for the great sex. So, it doesn't sound like your relationship was very deep. It sounds like it was predominantly physical, and now that she's found someone else to shag, you're bummed. I get that. But, be realistic about what this always was. Doesn't sound like you were dating - more like f*ck buddies.
hitmark Posted July 24, 2010 Posted July 24, 2010 such a same story i have heard from some where. it is good to support alone woman but also should have deep eye on the black side of woman.
Odyssey Posted July 28, 2010 Posted July 28, 2010 it is good to support alone woman but also should have deep eye on the black side of woman. What?
MrSnufkin Posted August 2, 2010 Posted August 2, 2010 I think what he means is that whilst its admirable to step in and support someone with so much baggage who is struggling (emotionally?) alone, there is always the danger that they are just going to use you as a meal ticket/doormat. I don't think you can restrict that 'black side' to women though...
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