maria gostrey Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 So my ex, after disappearing on me for 4 months has finally replied to a fb message i sent him soon after his disappearing act. i now know the reason for his disappearance; he met someone else. they have been dating now for 4 months and seem very happy. however, after a 4 year romantic online relationship with me he took off abruptly and now has the nerve to send me this pathetic message: "I feel as if I can respond to this now. Yes my disappearance had something to do with our last conversations, one specific phrase in said conversation in fact, w which lead me to do copious amounts of thinking and reflecting by which I realized some other things I had overlooked. However, thank you for your concern but I am fine, as is everything on my side. Despite my disappearance I hope everything is also well on your end. I hope the remainder of your undergrad went smoothly and that you are on your way to your various career goals. Respond to this as you will, " W.T.F? like...wtf? Should I even bother him a reply? if so whatever can i say? I wanted closure and an explanation for his abrupt disappearance but now i don't know...
whatadeer26 Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 That message is very odd and he seems very odd. Do yourself a favor delete it and forget it was ever sent.
lalalandman Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 lol. He was obviously trying to keep it strictly business with no strings attached. However, he definitely wants a response from you, but he thinks he's good at hiding this fact. It seems like he's toying with you still. If he really cared about you or the other girl he would just be honest. I would say definitely don't respond.
txsilkysmoothe Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Hell No, you shouldn't respond. I'm not convinced he wants a response, anyway. His message says nothing and means even less. It strikes me as someone "attempting" to come across as intellectual and failing miserably.
TouchedByViolet Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 Don't respond to this guy. You will feel much better with yourself this way.
RedDevil66 Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 When you say a "4 long on line" relationship, what does that mean? You never met him in person?
Author maria gostrey Posted July 22, 2010 Author Posted July 22, 2010 When you say a "4 long on line" relationship, what does that mean? You never met him in person? nope. we were on our way to tho.
cavedweller Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 'Delete' him out of your life and move on........
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