Username37 Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Is winning back a Gemini difficult? A gemini female If you're a gemini can you give me some details about the way you act and all of that.
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Gemini's are two-faced. Stick to that thought, and you'll do fine
Wings Of Love Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Gemini's are two-faced. Stick to that thought, and you'll do fine I'm a Gemini, I must say I resent that. I'm not really sure what to say, maybe you could give us an idea of your situation?
Jilly Bean Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 (edited) What's your sign, Username? Gemini's, being an air sign, are driven more by logic, than emotions, like water signs. They tend to be very intelligent, but also tend to find emotions to be a little pesky, in relation to hardcore emotions. They "think" rather than "feel", for the most part. Gemini's tend to lean towards the tangible, rather than the esoteric. I ask about your sign, because if you are a water sign, you're a horrible match to begin with, and I wouldn't recommend you even try to reconcile. That being said, trying to appeal to a Gemini on any issue is best done from a position of science, reason, and logic. Meaning, if you want her back, present a logical case as to why you think you're a good match, rather than an overly emotional plea and display. Oh - wanted to add about the person who said they are two-faced. Um, no. They just tend to change their mind quite often, and will feel strongly about a position one day, then change their mind and feel just as passionately about the opposite side the next. It's tough energy for a lot of people to handle, but they're not "betrayers" in the sense of being two-faced. Just highly mutable. Edited July 21, 2010 by Jilly Bean
GorillaTheater Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 I think it depends on whether the gemini in question is in uranus. I know it would make a difference to me.
Thorgs Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Hmm, interesting thread. How about, me (Aries) and her (Libra)? Just curious.
Wings Of Love Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Every source I've come across has told me that Taurus males and Gemini females are a fair match, but by no means a brilliant one. Any opinions on this one? In my opinion though, a reconciliation doesn't depend on the ways of one person involved, but of both people. If you were a good match to begin with, work with that. If you were a terrible one, maybe it's not such a good idea, unless you have both changed since the time you were together. Not sure if I'm helping, just the way I see things.
Author Username37 Posted July 21, 2010 Author Posted July 21, 2010 I'm a Gemini, I must say I resent that. I'm not really sure what to say, maybe you could give us an idea of your situation? Well, my ex girlfriend, who is a gemini, broke up with me because she felt tired. I'm aware that Geminis are very social and don't like to be tied down. I had a real connection with this girl, but I made mistakes and I want to show her that I worked on those mistakes. What's your sign, Username? Gemini's, being an air sign, are driven more by logic, than emotions, like water signs. They tend to be very intelligent, but also tend to find emotions to be a little pesky, in relation to hardcore emotions. They "think" rather than "feel", for the most part. Gemini's tend to lean towards the tangible, rather than the esoteric. I ask about your sign, because if you are a water sign, you're a horrible match to begin with, and I wouldn't recommend you even try to reconcile. That being said, trying to appeal to a Gemini on any issue is best done from a position of science, reason, and logic. Meaning, if you want her back, present a logical case as to why you think you're a good match, rather than an overly emotional plea and display. Oh - wanted to add about the person who said they are two-faced. Um, no. They just tend to change their mind quite often, and will feel strongly about a position one day, then change their mind and feel just as passionately about the opposite side the next. It's tough energy for a lot of people to handle, but they're not "betrayers" in the sense of being two-faced. Just highly mutable. I'm a Cancer. I felt like I really connected with my gemini ex. But we broke up around a really stressful time. Every source I've come across has told me that Taurus males and Gemini females are a fair match, but by no means a brilliant one. Any opinions on this one? In my opinion though, a reconciliation doesn't depend on the ways of one person involved, but of both people. If you were a good match to begin with, work with that. If you were a terrible one, maybe it's not such a good idea, unless you have both changed since the time you were together. Not sure if I'm helping, just the way I see things. It's been 2 months so far. I know my mistakes and I want to show her that I'm a different guy.
Jilly Bean Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 The only worse match for you than a Gemini, would be an Aquarian. You view the world completely differently. Cancers are feelers, Gems are thinkers. Your emotions overwhelm them, while their coldness can leave you numb. Astrologically speaking, I'd let it go. (FYI - I am a practicing pagan, and have studied astrology for many years. I'm also a cancer, aries rising, and I wouldn't touch a gemini again. That's from direct experience!)
Thorgs Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 The only worse match for you than a Gemini, would be an Aquarian. You view the world completely differently. Cancers are feelers, Gems are thinkers. Your emotions overwhelm them, while their coldness can leave you numb. Astrologically speaking, I'd let it go. (FYI - I am a practicing pagan, and have studied astrology for many years. I'm also a cancer, aries rising, and I wouldn't touch a gemini again. That's from direct experience!) Do me next do me next!!
Jilly Bean Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 LOL. In order to get a really accurate astrological compatibility chart, we'd have to know birthdates, birth time, and location. All I can do is give very general predictors of signs. I will say, there are lessons to be learned from every relationship we have, regardless of sign. Astrological compatibility can give you an idea of what to look for as potential challenges, or positive areas, as it accounts for rising signs, which are important as well.
Thorgs Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 LOL. In order to get a really accurate astrological compatibility chart, we'd have to know birthdates, birth time, and location. All I can do is give very general predictors of signs. I will say, there are lessons to be learned from every relationship we have, regardless of sign. Astrological compatibility can give you an idea of what to look for as potential challenges, or positive areas, as it accounts for rising signs, which are important as well. Both born in Hartford, CT...maybe that's why it didn't work out
Author Username37 Posted July 21, 2010 Author Posted July 21, 2010 The only worse match for you than a Gemini, would be an Aquarian. You view the world completely differently. Cancers are feelers, Gems are thinkers. Your emotions overwhelm them, while their coldness can leave you numb. Astrologically speaking, I'd let it go. (FYI - I am a practicing pagan, and have studied astrology for many years. I'm also a cancer, aries rising, and I wouldn't touch a gemini again. That's from direct experience!) What was wrong with your gemini if you don't mind me asking?
Trimmer Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 I think it depends on whether the gemini in question is in uranus. I know it would make a difference to me. Not too bad, as long as you've wiped out all the Klingons...
Jilly Bean Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Both born in Hartford, CT...maybe that's why it didn't work out LOL - wouldn't really affect it, except in the way that some planets are very slow moving, so even if you were years apart, you could have a lot of similar houses in your charts. What was wrong with your gemini if you don't mind me asking? Cancers crave stability and security. Geminis are free-spirits, and extremely mercurial. That's tough energy for cancers, as we don't like a lot of sudden and wild changes. Cancers need a nice, safe, warm environment to unleash their emotions. A gem wont handle that well at all. I remember he drove me nuts because he would flip all the time. One day the sky was red, and he would give you arguments why it was good, then the next, its blue, and thats great, and heres why. Your best bets are always to stick with the same elemental sign. So, for you, another cancer, a pisces or scorpio. After that, you're best with an earth sign, then fire, and lastly, air. But again, you can also find a great match with someone based on your rising signs, and also if you have enough planets in the same houses. Like, if you both have venus in cancer, you'll probably approach love the same way. True astrology is very scientific, and doesnt allow for a lot of personalization. You find that in the horoscopes you read online, as they are designed to appeal to all members of the sign (which is tough, and leaves out an incredible amount of pertinent info) and it's not nearly as detailed or accurate as reading a chart.
TheLoneSock Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 I'm a Gemini as well, and yes we are a little bi-polar at times. I don't think there's any special trick to getting a Gemini back, she's still a girl like any other. When it comes to holding onto a Gemini, if you're the stagnant type you're going to have a difficult time. We like excitement, motivation, movement and learning. A lot of energy and an intellectual mind is required to get all of our gears turning romantically. I will say this though; as a guy - the only times a girl has been able to keep me engaged after a break up to the point where we end up getting back together, is when she was creative, consistent, and persistent with her communication. In other words, putting me in NC never worked because I get bored easily. So I guess my only piece of advice is to grab and keep hold of her attention, because it is fleeting. I don't believe in astrology as a code to live by, but there are some useful and true (most of the time) parts to it. Hope this helps.
Author Username37 Posted July 22, 2010 Author Posted July 22, 2010 My Gemini ex changed like crazy. When I first dated her, she was innocent and shy. It was adorable. She also had a weight problem, which I didn't care about at all. I loved her for her. As she began losing weight, she began to be more distant and more cold to me. But I still loved her. Is this an example of her wild changes? Or was she just being a bitch? haha
Thorgs Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 LOL - wouldn't really affect it, except in the way that some planets are very slow moving, so even if you were years apart, you could have a lot of similar houses in your charts. Maybe one of the planets was moving so slow that she just hopped off of it and onto Earth as they were passing...because there's no way in hell that she's from this planet!!
lullaby Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 The only worse match for you than a Gemini, would be an Aquarian. You view the world completely differently. Cancers are feelers, Gems are thinkers. Your emotions overwhelm them, while their coldness can leave you numb. Astrologically speaking, I'd let it go. (FYI - I am a practicing pagan, and have studied astrology for many years. I'm also a cancer, aries rising, and I wouldn't touch a gemini again. That's from direct experience!) I love astrology and I'm planning on doing a course about it next year My ex is a Cancer and you're so right about Cancers being feelers. I'm a Gemini and always wanted to discuss things, talk, and he was more into his feelings, a deepness I couldn't understand really. And it's true, I flip all the time and he couldn't handle it The match can work but it's true that they are very different and it's quite hard. Now I ask you Jilly Bean, what about Taurus and Gemini?
Author Username37 Posted July 22, 2010 Author Posted July 22, 2010 I love astrology and I'm planning on doing a course about it next year My ex is a Cancer and you're so right about Cancers being feelers. I'm a Gemini and always wanted to discuss things, talk, and he was more into his feelings, a deepness I couldn't understand really. And it's true, I flip all the time and he couldn't handle it The match can work but it's true that they are very different and it's quite hard. Now I ask you Jilly Bean, what about Taurus and Gemini? My ex was a talkative too. But she expressed her feelings more than I did. I was her go to guy. As the relationship went down, it did get pretty hard. She wasn't very understanding. Like if I told her I was hanging out with family and couldn't make it to our friend's get together, she would get pissy for a while. I understood why she would be angry but still, I was with family. But yeah, being a cancer sucks. I hate that I'm so sensitive XD
Thorgs Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 lullaby, I just Goggle'd my compatibility with my ex...some interesting stuff.
Jilly Bean Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 Is this an example of her wild changes? Or was she just being a bitch? haha Neither. Geminis are just mercurial, and highly so. They change their minds, opinions, etc. pretty quickly, and without warning. It's difficult to keep up. lol Maybe one of the planets was moving so slow that she just hopped off of it and onto Earth as they were passing...because there's no way in hell that she's from this planet!! LOL. My ex is a Cancer and you're so right about Cancers being feelers. I'm a Gemini and always wanted to discuss things, talk, and he was more into his feelings, a deepness I couldn't understand really. And it's true, I flip all the time and he couldn't handle it The match can work but it's true that they are very different and it's quite hard. Now I ask you Jilly Bean, what about Taurus and Gemini? It can work a little better if the man is a cancer, and the woman is the gemini. Other way around, no hope. But, yeah, you experienced the downside of the match. Im sure his deep sensitivities were foreign to you, and he would perceive your sensibilities as coldness. It's a very tough match to forge, as you're really fighting against the very essence of your beings. I LOVE being with cancer men. I feel like I can be as emotional and hypersensitive as I am, and he gets it, and doesnt freak out over it. Taurus and gem? Eh. Not one of my favorites. You're both rational, which is a plus, and you can make him more exciting, and he can ground you a bit. You both tend to loathe drama as well. Downside - Taureans can be VERY jealous, and VERY possessive, which is rough on a gem, who tends to be free-spirited. Even if a gem's intentions are innocent, a Taurean can get the wrong impression. Gem's don't handle insecurity well in others... But yeah, being a cancer sucks. I hate that I'm so sensitive XD DON'T. Just know because of it, you are best suited to another water sign. A cancer woman will want to nest with you, stay in and cook rather than go out, spend the weekend in bed, nurture you, possess you - lol. Seriously - a cancer woman will appreciate your depth of emotions and ability to perceive others emotions as well.
YellowShark Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 True astrology is very scientific, and doesnt allow for a lot of personalization. HAHAHAHAHA!!! Thanks for the best laugh I've had all month.
starryeyed12 Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 I used to be very into astology. If you really want to know your compatibility then you must know your Rising, Moon, and Sun sign. Those are the 3 aspects of personality. Your rising, or accendent is how u appear to others and how u come off before ppl really get to know you. It's the tendancies you have when being in new situations. The moon rules emotions. Sun is who you are when you are alone and at peace with your self and others. Its the behaviors that you feel you truely have. You need your birth time, date, and location to get an accurate map of the sky when you were born to figure out these signs. I am a scorpio rising, leo moon, and pisces sun. My emotions always are up and down especially due to the contrast between my moon nature and my sun nature. These signs highly influence your relationship choices. www.cafeastrology. com for more. That said, I wouldn't live my life by it. It's not scientific at all. In fact, if you have a iphone and get the app that called sky map, you will see that the earth has shifted since astology came about and when the sun is supposed to be in Cancer, its really in Leo and so on. Everything has shifted. Its still fun though!
smk Posted July 22, 2010 Posted July 22, 2010 geminis - hot as the scorching sun one second and cool as an iceberg the next... you gotta love them cos they keep you on your toes... indecisive as hell - will make you fall absolutely, madly passionately in love with them, and will love you with as much passion, but when its over they will switch off every emotion as if nothing ever happened... sorry peeps - just sharing my experience... not good not bad... i know deep down inside she still loves me (or at least i hope she does) - but they way they can switch is quite f*****g scary... they can make you feel like the centre of their universe one second and like a 3rd class citizen of their world the next.... but as i said i would never change her, and will always love her.... thats my gem for you... p.s. i am scorpio and quite intense - i never used to believe in this stuff until she got me into it and there are some truths to the malarkey we read on the net....
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