edwards99 Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Ill try and keep this short.. my love and I are going to try again..we have been talking alot..and crying alot..and feeling alot..we have spent time screaming..and holding..and we still see that we love each other..and even though we separated for 3 months..we we want to be back together.. alot has been sorted out and most are things that we should have just done before it became a hurricane. we kissed and the sparks that we felt back when we met..are still there..and feel amazing..the feeling of being close is intoxicating.. my questions are this..i know what i have learned but what are lessons that you all have found and what advise can you offer to me.. I have learned alot from this site..and a few ey people mimic me in alot of ways..so i understand in some ways..we are all the same fighting for the same things out of life..with our main goal of being happy..is a shared emotion.
Username37 Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Congrats! Were you on NC for a while or did you just talk to her like friends and it all came out? And just don't make the mistakes from the first time around and you'll be good
Maverick1983 Posted July 21, 2010 Posted July 21, 2010 Don't ever take her for granted again because eventually the chances run out.Try and make a list of what it is that you done wrong in the past and try to adhere to them.I broke up with my ex of 8 years and got back with her a few times but like you said it's amazing at first but and I mean this, keep it that way.I wish you all the best and hope everything works out for ye both.
Author edwards99 Posted July 22, 2010 Author Posted July 22, 2010 Thank you very much to both of you.i have made quitre a few lists..lol we both tried the no contact but it became kinda of known that we hadnet really brioken up like i thought but really just need a break from each other..we were working together for 8 months prior and we literally spent 24 7 with each other..niether of us could stop talking to the other..and words like honey..and baby..and even some i love yous were still slipping out.. But ya I am going to try my best to make this work..cuz she is the whole world to me.
Not strong enough Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 Congrats man, But like maverick said, keep it that way, let her know how you feel more often, if you feel like your even getting alittle distance, then do something immedately, take her some place special. Because if it ever happens again, its going to be alot worse, and you may not get her back again.
cavedweller Posted July 27, 2010 Posted July 27, 2010 99, Congrats and good luck...I hope it works out for the both of you..
feelinggood Posted July 29, 2010 Posted July 29, 2010 I don't know why but I just couldn't help myself to feel happy for you. And I'm feeling happy too. Just like my name, feeling good Good luck!
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